- 56 SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE
By bisi adewale
One thing that determines the level of any marriage is the level of maturity of people involve in it. People can be so mature and professional at work and be so immature and babyish at home.
Here I will list some signs of immaturity in marriage, your comment on it will also show how mature you are.
1: Been quick to get angry about everything
3: Can’t just forgive, keeps hurts in his or her heart
4: Been Always right, you can’t just be wrong,
5: Loving Parents and siblings more than Spouse
6: Feeling entitled to everything.
7: Fighting Spouses family dirty
9: Issuing threats of divorce, separation of violence
10: Thinking they are too important in the life of their spouses
11: Bragging about what he or she is doing at home to support spouse
12: Immature partner keeps malice after every misunderstanding .
13: Immature husband rejecting wife’s food due to misunderstanding
24: immature wife refuses to prepare meal because of provocation.
25: Immature husbands do beat and hurt their Wives
26: Can’t just apologise no matter how wrong he or she is.
27: Fighting your Spouse dirty in the public
28: Reporting your Spouse to all dick and Harry
29: Reporting your spouse to your Children
30: Packing out of your matrimonial home after every misunderstanding.
31: Husband Saying “I am the head of this house” every time
32: Blocking the door not allowing husband to go to work
33: Breaking household properties in anger.
34: Giving ultimatums
35: Nagging and complaining
36: Comparing your spouse to others
37: Supporting outsiders to fight your spouse
38: Criticising your Spouse outlook, skills or ability
39: Refusingto grow and develop to become a better spouse
40: refusing to seek counsel in the right place when there are issues in Marriage but rather looking for people that will support you to fight your spouse.
41: Keeping secret from your spouse
42: Putting codes on your phone to hide things from your spouse.
43: Threatening your spouse with police or deportation.
44: Fighting over little things like tooth paste, flushing of toilet etc
45: Singing songs to abuse your spouse.
46: Bringing your siblings to fight your spouse
47: Competing with each other instead of complementing each other in marriage
48: Sending abusive text messages to your spouse
49: Shouting when discussing with your spouse
50: making your Children to hate your spouse
51: Not giving room for discussion when there are issues
52: Thinking and saying your spouse is the only one that is wrong but you are a saint.
53: making those that hates your spouse your best friend
54: Slamming Doors, dropping phones on your spouse in anger
55: Slepeping with any other person apart from your spouse.
56: Posting your case on social media for the world to know
(Please share this, let me know your thought about these and add more immature things people doin marriage to make it more than 200)
