5 Things Wives Were Doing That Is Pushing Their Marriage Into Trouble.
-By Bisi Adewale
There are wrong things many wives are doing that is pushing their marriage into trouble which is more than what they bargain for at the beginning of the relationship. If wives will stop all these wrong habits listed below, their husbands will love to them to the 7th heaven.
- Using abusive words, fighting your husband or being a nag has never helped any woman. It only helps in pushing the man out of the house. Surprisingly, I have met women who brag about their nagging lifestyle. It is bad, foolish and childish.
- Fighting in-laws. There is no way you can separate your husband from his parents by fighting them. Don’t be deceived if your husband supports you when you fight his family. You can never separate them.
- Committing their husbands into the hands of a housemaid. Many women had lost their homes because they allowed their maids to be responsible for the welfare of their husbands. You have simply signed that marriage off. Wise women know that maids are for support and nothing more. Finito!
- Reporting their husbands. Some women are fond of reporting their husbands to their friends, family, neighbours, whenever their expectations are not met by their husbands. You can never get a right result by making a wrong move.
- Disrespecting their husbands. Men greatly value their ego and will easily tilt towards any woman. If you are fond of disrespecting your husband because you are angry with him, you will be the number one enemy of your marriage. The Bible commands you to respect your husband. (Ephesians 5:33). The next one is a major factor, that is why I am giving it to you last. Sexual denial. Most wives use sex as a weapon to fight their husbands. If you deny him at home, some women will offer it to him on a platter of gold. Be wise; don’t lose your marriage through foolishness. Satisfy your husband sexually.