Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
-Bisi Adewale
Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
How healthy is your marriage? Are you enjoying your marriage or you are enduring it? Are you happy or unhappy with your spouse? Are you tired or your marriage? If you’re tired, who is to blame for it? I will tell you the truth, your marriage is what you make it to be.Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
You are the number one friend or foe of your marriage, you determine what happens in it; you can make it better and you can destroy it. Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
A wise young boy heard about the wisest old man in another region and he desired to meet this old man, to prove to him that he is the wisest. On getting there he challenged the old man to a contest. He told the man that there was no riddle he could not solve, no proverb he did not understand and that he could answer any question easily.
Then the wise old man gave him a piece of chalk and told him to draw the natural lines on the palm of his hands; the boy quickly went and drew the lines. The wise old man looked at it and saw that he had drawn the lines on his left hand; the old man said he expected him to draw the one on the right, hence he failed.Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
Though the boy protested, the old man said that following instructions was part of the test. He then concluded by saying, “When I asked you to draw the marks on your palm, you’re supposed to ask, “which of the palms should I draws, left or right”. Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
Having failed the test, the young boy wanted to prove that the old man could also fail his test. He held a bird in the palm of his hands, hid it behind his back and asked the old man if it was dead or alive? ” The old man looked at him and said, “It is in your hands whether alive or dead. If it is alive and I tell you it is alive, you can squeeze it and it will die, so either dead or alive it is in your hands.”
Just like the wise old man reply about the bird, I am also putting it to you that your marriage is what you make it to be; it is in your hand! Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be
