Marriage

5 PEOPLE THAT CAN DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE

June 17, 2018

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There are these four guys who have successfully destroyed millions of marriages world wide but their names are never mentioned in the law court during divorce proceedings, but they are working silently causing great havoc in Marriage.
1) MR PRIDE:
“Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.”
??Proverbs? ?13:10? ?KJV??
Pride is one major guy who is an expert in destroy lovely homes. There is hardly home that can stand for long when pride reign supreme in it.
PROUD WIFE
? A proud lady will never submit, will be full of argument, will disobey her husband, stubborn, difficult to handle and flaunt her credentials before her husband and in laws.
? A proud husband will be very difficult in Marriage,
? Full of ego, always saying i am the head of this house.

PROUD HUSBAND
– you can’t advise him, wife cant correct him,
– he is always right, it is either his way or no way.
– A proud man is full of himself and very difficult, – he is a commander at home,
– he is a Teacher of all, Student of non.
-Proud Men are always the most difficult husbands to have.

2) MR COVETOUSNESS:
“Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”
??Hebrews? ?13:5? ?KJV??
Covetousness is another dirty “guy” in Marriage. It can bring down any Marriage no matter how beautiful.
– A covetous person will never be satisfied with his or her spouse.
– covetousness is the Mother of all sexual infidelity in Marriage
– Somebody out there is always better, grass is always greener in the other compound.
No marriage can survive covetousness, it will be full of infidelity, sexual immorality, comparison, hatred, lack of commitment and discontentment.
3) MR SELFISHNESS:
“Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit [through factional motives, or strife], but with [an attitude of] humility [being neither arrogant nor self-righteous], regard others as more important than yourselves.
Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.”
??PHILIPPIANS? ?2:3-4? ?AMP??
— Selfishness breed argument and destroys service and sacrificial actions. It breeds self empire leading to self glorification, self justification and stinginess.
— One of the most terrible marriage ever is the Marriage of two stingy spouses, it can be really terrible, they will find it difficult to agree as non will let go, it will be full of stalemates and disagreements.
— When you always take decision that favors you without considering your spouse, you are selfish. If you always win argument leaving your spouse devastated and it doesn’t bothers you, you are selfish.