30 Powerful Ways to Make Your Husband Cry for Joy This Weekend (Number 14 and 25 and 30 are the bombs)
Because even strong men deserve to be deeply loved
Many women don’t realize just how much power they carry to touch the heart of their husbands in profound ways. Every husband—no matter how quiet, confident, or composed—has a hidden craving to be seen, desired, respected, appreciated, and pursued by his wife.
Not just for what he provides. But for who he is.
This weekend, be intentional. Be romantic. Be nurturing. Be fun. Be the wife that reminds him why marrying you was the best decision he ever made.
Here are 30 powerful and deeply intentional ways to make your husband cry for joy this weekend — not from pain or pressure, but from pure, passionate love.
1. Look Into His Eyes and Say, “Thank You for Being My Husband”
Say it when he least expects it. Not because it’s a special day, but because your heart overflows with gratitude. Let him see it in your eyes that you truly mean it — that you’re proud to be his wife and thankful for his love and presence in your life.
2. Write Him a Personal Love Note
Take a pen, sit down quietly, and write a heartfelt letter filled with admiration and respect. Recall your early days, mention what you love about him now, and highlight the ways he’s grown as a man. Leave it on his pillow or send it as a surprise in his work bag.
3. Pray for Him and With Him
Stand in the gap for your husband. Lay your hand on his chest or hold his hands and pray boldly over his life, mind, work, health, and calling. Let him hear you asking God to lift him, favor him, and strengthen him. Nothing touches a man like a praying wife.
4. Send Him an Unexpected Romantic Message
While he’s out or even in the next room, send a text or voice note that says, “I can’t stop thinking about you,” or “You make my heart race.” Let him feel pursued again — like he’s still the man who turns your heart on.
5. Prepare His Favorite Meal With Love
Don’t just cook — present. Plate it beautifully. Serve it warmly. Smile as you do it. Let him feel honored like a king. Light candles if possible. Let him eat and know that it was made just for him, from your heart.
6. Surprise Him With a Gift — Big or Small
It doesn’t have to be expensive — just thoughtful. Maybe a wallet, a cologne he once mentioned, a tech gadget, or even a custom mug that says “Best Husband.” The surprise will warm his heart and make him feel deeply appreciated.
7. Affirm His Efforts Out Loud
Tell him: “You work so hard for this family,” “I admire how you lead us,” or “You’re doing so well, I’m proud of you.” Your words are not just compliments; they are fuel. Speak them freely and often.
8. Rub His Head or Shoulders
Every man carries pressure in his body. Sit behind him and gently rub his head, shoulders, or back. No words. Just love in your touch. That release will melt him — and his heart with it.
9. Give Him a Foot or Full Body Massage
Let him lie down and relax while you massage his tired feet or his whole body. Use scented oil if available. Take your time. Let your touch say, “You are loved, served, and safe here.”
10. Ask Him, “How Can I Make You Feel More Loved?”
This single question may unlock his heart in a way you’ve never seen. Listen to his answer without judgment or interruption — then apply it.
11. Dress Beautifully — Just for Him
Don’t wait for an event. Surprise him this weekend by dressing in something sexy, elegant, or just deeply feminine — according to his taste. Let him know you still care about being attractive to him.
12. Speak Highly of Him in Front of Others
Let your words honor him publicly. Praise his wisdom, character, or strength around your kids, friends, or family. Public honor stirs private pride in a man’s heart.
13. Touch Him Lovingly Throughout the Day
Hold his hand. Stroke his beard. Hug him from behind. Rest your head on his shoulder. These silent expressions of affection build connection beyond words.
14. Initiate Sex — Make It Bed-Shaking
Don’t just wait for him to make a move. Take control — in a fun, loving, seductive way. Dress up, light the room, tease him, lead him, and love him without reservation. Give him a night that makes him whisper, “Wow… I married a gift.” Let him feel fully desired by his own wife. Let the bed shake and heaven smile.
15. Take Pressure Off His Weekend
Let this weekend be different. Ease his load. Don’t bombard him with tasks or complaints. Just create space for him to breathe and enjoy your company.
16. Call Him Sweet Names You Used to Use
Bring back those pet names. Whether it was “Babe,” “My king,” “Honey,” or “My heartbeat,” say it again — and watch his heart leap.
17. Watch His Favorite Show or Match With Him
Sit beside him. Be excited to be with him, even if it’s not your thing. Laugh at his jokes. Celebrate his team. Let him feel your companionship, not just your physical presence.
18. Speak Life Into His Future
Say things like: “You haven’t even touched your greatness yet,” “I believe in your dreams,” or “You are going places, and I’ll be right by your side.” Speak prophetically. He needs your voice more than you know.
19. Hug Him and Say Nothing
Wrap your arms around him tightly and just stay there. Let him feel covered, comforted, and complete. Sometimes, silence says more than words ever could.
20. Be Playful With Him Again
Tickle him. Tease him. Joke with him. Flirt. Send him a cheeky text. Be that fun, light-hearted girl he fell in love with.
21. Tell Him Why You Respect Him
Respect is a love language to men. Be specific — “I admire how you lead,” “I respect the way you handle stress,” “I love your discipline.” He’ll never forget those words.
22. Give Him Undivided Attention for an Hour
No phone. No chores. Just the two of you. Look at him. Talk. Listen. Laugh. Be present — fully.
23. Celebrate a Small Win in His Life
Don’t wait for a promotion. Celebrate the fact that he fixed the sink, solved a family issue, or made a wise decision. Let him know you notice and you care.
24. Don’t Correct — Just Comfort
If he’s vulnerable or venting, don’t fix him. Don’t advise unless he asks. Just be soft. Listen. Let your presence heal him.
25. Be His Peace, Not His Pressure
Your words, tone, and attitude can either build him or burden him. Let your presence soothe him. Let home be his haven.
26. Rub His Back While He Sleeps
Soft, slow strokes on his back while he rests is a gesture of covering, honor, and love. It’s deeply nurturing — and unforgettable.
27. Thank Him for His Sacrifices
Say, “Thank you for working so hard,” “Thank you for never giving up on us,” “Thank you for standing strong.” It will strengthen him even more.
28. Sit in Silence With Him
Just be. No expectations. No conversations. Just sit close, hold his hand, or lean on his shoulder. Let your silence communicate your comfort.
29. Initiate a Prayer Over His Life
Call his name before God. Lay hands on him and say, “Lord, bless my husband. Lift him. Give him wisdom. Protect him. Make him greater.” Let him know you are his intercessor.
30. Say Again, “You’re My Man. I Still Choose You”
Say it clearly. Say it passionately. Say it as if your life depends on it. Reassure him that after all the years, trials, and seasons, he’s still your dream come true.
Dear wife, when you love your husband intentionally, he becomes a better man. He may not always show it, but he’s taking it all in. This weekend, let your love be so deep, so intentional, so passionate that it moves him to joyful tears.
Let him cry, not because he’s hurting…
But because you healed him.
Bisi Adewale
Marriage Clinician
