3 FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLES OF RAISING TRIPLE G CHILDREN
By Bisi Adewale
“And Reuben answered them, saying, speak I not unto you, saying, Do not sin against the child; and ye would not hear? therefore, behold, also his blood is required.”
Genesis 42:22 KJV
Excellent Parenting Is a Parenting work that gives room for a child to be loved, taught, trained, Moulded and led in the way of the Lord, giving room to raising triple G Children (Godly, Good and Great Children)
There are 3 Major ways often forgotten, often ignore in Parenting work and they are the Keys to the success of our Parenting
- VISION:
“Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”
Proverbs 29:18 KJV
- Purpose is the ignition of the life of a Child, Vision is the gear of his destiny
- Many life and destiny are in neutral gear all their lives
- When Sin mixed with the absence of Vision the life of a Child will enter reverse gear.
- If you raise a Child with Vision, you will work with Caution
- Absence of vision is the greatest killer of destiny
MANOAH ASKED FOR VISION AND DIRECTION
“And Manoah arose, and went after his wife, and came to the man, and said unto him, Art thou the man that spoke unto the woman? And he said I am. And Manoah said, Now let thy words come to pass. How shall we order the child, and how shall we do unto him? And the angel of the Lord said unto Manoah, of all that I said unto the woman let her beware. She may not eat of anything that cometh of the vine, neither let her drink wine or strong drink nor eat any unclean thing: all that I commanded her let her observe.”
Judges 13:11-14 KJV
- Every Parent should ask God what a Child is meant to do.
- INTENTIONALITY
“Whoso keepeth the fig tree shall eat the fruit thereof: so he that waited on his master shall be honoured.”
Proverbs 27:18 KJV
– To raise Godly Children, you must be deliberate, you must be intentional,
– You must be like a Farmer who plants in his farm, water it and weed it deliberately to get a good yield. Corn cannot grow without deliberate effort.
FORMS OF PARENTING:
- Free-Range Parenting
No parenting works at all, Children are living their lives the way it pleases them and they live like Village goats and Chicken who have this freedom to live their lives the way they wanted it with no caution.
- Kick And Follow Parenting
This involves Parenting without Vision, Teaching, training and direction
- Deliberate Parenting
This involves Vision, Direction, Planning, Strategies deliberately carried out to fulfill a Purpose.
- AVAILABILITY:
“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.”
Proverbs 29:15 KJV
- When they can’t see you when they are young, you won’t see them when you are old
- Parenting work cannot be done without you being there and it cannot be delegated.
- After God created Adam he was available to breathe on him, that is when he became a living soul.
“And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and man became a living soul.”
Genesis 2:7 KJV
I pray that our children will not grow wayward but you are to do the needful
© Bisi Adewale 2020
