27 FOOLISH THINGS WOMEN DO TO DISRESPECT THEIR HUSBAND
Bisi Adewale
Here let check how wives disrespect their husbands:
- By asking questions that they really don’t want the answer to, but are just pointing out how stupid they think their husbands are, like, “How could you possibly…?”
- By rolling their eyes
- By interrupting him
- By not including him in their decision making
- By pausing lips and scowling as he contributes his thoughts
- By comparing him to other men
- By saying, ‘’and you call yourself a man’’
- By hissing at him
- By engaging him in conversations half-heartedly.
- By shouting at him
- By demeaning him before others
- By abusing him
- By demanding for money or gift before sex
- By threatening to divorce him
- By disrespecting his mother
- By fighting his family
- By challenging him for a fight
- By talking ill of him in his absence
- By talking ill of him to your children
- By arguing without acknowledging his idea.
- By not asking questions about what he thinks.
- By starting all questions with “Why did you…?” because that’s a ‘challenge’ word for men.
- By withholding compliments instead of looking for opportunities to build him up.
- By leaving him with a list of things to accomplish while away; and then, criticizing him for not getting all of it done.
- By correcting him when he’s interacting with the children, especially if it’s his first time doing something. That will stop him from feeling like you think he is a good parent. So, he’ll stop trying.
- By criticizing their husbands instead of praising them first, especially when they have something constructive to let them know.
- By expecting husbands to read their minds as their sisters, girlfriends, and mother can.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
