21 Ways To Learn Forgiveness In Marriage
Bisi Adewale
- Always remember that you too are not perfect, so you can make mistake
- Remember that to err is human but to forgive is divine
- Make room in your heart for offences
- Forgive and forget
- Never keep records of offence
- Always remember that you will be doing yourself a great favour if you forgive.
- Know that lacks of forgiveness will hinder your prayers (Mk. 11:25-26)
- Be the first person that will take re-conciliatory steps, remember you are a Christian
- If you find it so difficult to forgive the person, lock yourself up in your room, call the name of the person 20 times, then pray for him or her for 15 minutes; do it twice (morning and night) in 3 days, and you will receive grace to forgive.
- Always remember that unforgiveness may hinder you from making heaven.
- Never mention the offence again, either to your spouse or to anybody else, for it will be as if you are opening a wound that is still healing. (Isa. 43:25)
- Ask for the spirit of forgiveness
- Do to your spouse as you want him to do unto you.
- Never keep malice, resentment or bitterness against your spouse.
- Turn hurt to humour, grudge to jokes
- Learn the art of positive thinking; think positively about the mistakes of your spouse.
- Be in charge of your mind; never allow the devil to use your heart to destroy your home.
- Pray always for your spouse
- If your partner makes any mistake, see it as a prayer point, do not turn it to a grudge
- Deal with anger- Always remember that anger is a choice and he that makes you angry conquers you
- Deal with pride- it prolongs anger.
21 Ways To Learn Forgiveness In Marriage Always remember that you too are not perfect, so you can make mistake
21 Ways To Learn Forgiveness In Marriage
21 Ways To Learn Forgiveness In Marriage
