17 PRACTICAL WAYS TO APPRECIATE YOUR WIFE

17 PRACTICAL WAYS TO APPRECIATE YOUR WIFE

Bisi Adewale

Let’s make today a wife appreciation day. Let us appreciate our wives for everything they’ve done for us. Don’t you fancy taking her out today? It is not bad for getting her some special gifts. Don’t wait till her birthday when you would write beautiful things on Facebook, but treat her like trash throughout the year.

Here let me show you practical ways to appreciate your wife.

1. APPRECIATE HER FOR GIVING YOU PEACE AND JOY: Appreciate your wife for been peace-loving and for being a woman of quality character.
2. NOTICE THE LITTLE THINGS: You may be in a routine of splitting the jobs equally in the house. Perhaps, you do the cooking and the gardening while she does the cleaning and the washing. Even if you both do your fair share- make sure you thank her for her bit.
3. SUPPORT HER IN HER PASSIONS:Allow her time to pursue her goals. So, if that means picking up some extra jobs to give her more time, do it. You know she would do the same for you.
4. COMPLIMENT YOUR WIFE:Once the flirtation and the honeymoon period is over, couples may forget to complement their loved one. So, tell her something positive about her looks or how good a partner she is so that she knows you still find her attractive and value her as your spouse.
5. KEEP A REGULAR NIGHT DATE: If it’s been a while since you had a meal together, it might be time to book one in and enjoy good food, drink and converse. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just as long as you’re sitting opposite one another with no distractions. If your budget is tight, eat in your dining room instead of having a TV dinner.
6. GIVE CREATIVE APPRECIATION:Be creative when giving appreciation. Don’t just appreciate her, do something much more. Saying ‘thank you’ can lose its meaning, so why not change the way you say it? ‘I appreciate it when…’, ‘I love it when…’, ‘I am grateful to you for…’ or ‘what would I do without you?’ or leave them on a note, drop them an email or text message.
7. APPRECIATE TIME AND EFFORT: Sometimes, she will put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into something and the end result might not be what she’d hoped for. It could be a burnt meal, forgetting something, or not getting that promotion at work. Whatever it is, make it known that you recognize the effort she puts all the same.
8. APPRECIATE THOUGHTFULNESS: Try to go to picnics without her packing your bags and see how messy things will be. When she packs for the picnic, she will pack everything. Don’t be surprised when she brings out safety pins when you need it, and everything you need when you need them. Women are amazing.
9. APPRECIATE HER MOTHERHOOD:She is doing an amazing job in raising your children, pregnancy, antenatal, delivery, breastfeeding, bathing the baby and much more.

Can you imagine these?

• A child breastfeeds at an average of ten times per day, that is whopping

3,650 times per year.

• A mother will change nappies at an average of 3 times per day, making 1,095

times per year.

• She prepares meals at least 3 times a day, making 1095 times per year in the

kitchen. She cleans the house at least twice daily making 730 times per year.

10. APPRECIATE HER SLEEPLESS NIGHTS:She keeps awake at night to make you and your baby comfortable. What an amazing woman you married, appreciate her.
11. APPRECIATE REMEMBRANCE:Don’t look at the value of things she bought or gave.

Appreciate the fact that you are in her mind, despite her busy schedule and demand on her time.

12. APPRECIATE HER WIFEHOOD:Appreciate your wife’s wifehood, her job as a wife is extraordinary. Cooking, boiling, frying, cleaning, washing and many more. She definitely makes your life better.
13. LET HER KNOW HOW INTEGRAL SHE IS TO YOUR SUCCESS AND LIFE:Remind her that your pay rise at work was not because of your hard work only, but her understanding when you came home too late at nights, working weekends, dinners on the table, countless cups of coffee and a listening ear. When you passed that promotion test, tell her that she helped you to study for it. Yes, the majority of your personal success is down to you, but it’s made easier by the support she gives you.
14. PRAISE HER IN FRIENDS’ COMPANY:Always highlight what she does for you to friends and family. Never put her down in front of other people. Set a good example for other couples. Any issue should always be dealt with privately.
15. OFFER YOUR HELP WHEN SHE NEEDS IT:If she needs a lift to work because her car is in the garage or for you to pick something up from the shop because she doesn’t have the time do it, be thoughtful and try to help her when and where you can.
16. NOTICE THE BIG THINGS:If she puts in the time with your family, tell her how grateful you are that you all get along. If she makes a big effort on special occasions, make sure you let her know that you appreciate all the planning that went into pulling it off.
17. APPRECIATE HER SEXINESS:Have you ever thanked your wife for sex? I doubt it. She is your bundle of pleasure, your pot of honey. Thank her for her bedroom performance and her display in bed. Thank her for giving you orgasm and not agony. Thank her for these and see her reaction.

© Bisi Adewale2020