17 THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT

17 THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT

17 THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT

17 THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT
By Bisi Adewale
Lots of Husbands are confuse,they don’t know their roles when their wives are pregnant. There are many things to do when your wife is pregnant,you cant afford to fail God by not doing them.
Here,I will open your eyes to what your roles is when you have your wife in the state of pregnancy. 17 THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT
PRAY FOR HER: One of the major duties of a great husband for a pregnant wife is prayer. As the priest of the house pray for your pregnant wife,pray for divine protection provisional,safety of Mother and Child,proper development of the baby,strength for the Mother and safety in delivery.

ATTEND CLINIC SESSION: Attend clinic sessions with her,be totally involve

BE PREGNANT IN YOUR HEART: One wise man said,”if your wife is pregnant in the womb,you husband must be pregnant in the heart” I agree totally with this. Carry the pregnancy in your heart as your wife carry it in her heart.

CARE FOR HER: Be loving,be caring. CARE is what your wife need most now more than anything,please care for her,tender her,help her in everything

PLAY WITH HER: Play with her at home dance together,release the Childish and Childlike part of you,just be playful

MASSAGE HER: A whole lots of Pregnant women are known to have Muscle cramp they need body massage. You don’t need to be a professional body massager before you do this. Go ahead,massage her body.

JOKE WITH HER: Take every moment to make her happy and lively,joke positively about her big tummy,call her “mother of Nations”. When referring to her alone use pluralistic words say “all of you” “all of them” “they are coming”,”they are here” etc. use every avenue to crack jokes with her without insulting or demeaning her.

PREPARE FINANCIALLY FOR DELIVERY: Women do feel at home when they know their husbands are preparing financially for the delivery. Prepare financially to take care of the Mother and Child after the delivery. Consciously save for this period that makes you a real man.

HELP HER EMOTIONALLY: Stand by her,help her emotionally,she may be depressed a times,motivate her,she may be discourage,please encourage her.

REMIND HER TO TAKE HER DRUG: Remind her to take her drug,remember you are her nurse at this moment.
HELP WITH THE SHOPPING: You can also go ahead and do the shopping for her. Get the grocery for her and help her pick one of two things she will need.
STEP INTO THE KITCHEN: she may hate cooking at this period,what a privilege to show your cooking skill? Step into the kitchen cook whatever she want for both of you. If you don’t do it well don’t worry you will improve before the end of your tenure in the kitchen.

APPRECIATE HER: Appreciate her effort in carrying your baby,always be grateful to her for making you a father.

BE HOMELY: She need you around her now than before,please be homely,stop all the partying,night crawling and clubbing,be a responsible man,be at home.

BE FAITHFUL: She is not likely going to look sexy like before,she is not like going to fall over heel begging you for sex at this time. Please this does not call for unfaithfulness,it will be a wicked act to leave her at home beating your burden when you pursue other girls outside.

UNDERSTAND WITH HER: Please bear with her,she may be sheepish,sluggish,dull,sickly and even lazy. Bear with her,you cause her state of mind,so please bear with her,don’t ever be harsh on her.

BE PATIENCE WITH: She may not be ready for sex like before,she may even detest it,just be patience with her,you will have your lover girl back after her delivery.1

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THINGS YOU MUST DO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT