3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
-By Bisi Adewale
There are generally three kinds of marriage. Your ability
to attain the marriage of your desire will be largely determined by the quality of service and the sacrifices you are ready to make. Lets check the three kinds of marriage:3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
1.WORST MARRIAGES:
People in the worst marriages in the world say;
“Your feelings aren’t valid unless you feel the way I feel.”
“Unless you make me happy, you can never enjoy life.”
“I’m looking for servant and I have found you; so go ahead and
serve me.”
“Unless you behave like me you won’t have peace.”
“I am here to be served. I am here to be worshiped. Be the servant,
be the worshiper.”
“I will make your life miserable unless you do what I want.”
“I don’t need to do what you want; I am the boss here.”
“Your needs do not bother me; all I need is for my needs to be met.”
“I now have your back; bend down let me ride you.”
“You even need to thank God that I married you.”
It is a marriage of the following people:3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
Users,
Abusers,
Riders,
Rulers,
Killers,
Masters, and Combatants.
It is a battle field marriage in which hurting and wounding each
other is the order of the day thereby making life miserable for all
involved.
2) AVERAGE MARRIAGES.3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
An average marriage is a marriage that looks like a contract, it is
performance based,
People in an average marriage says
“if you do your duty, I will do my own. If you fail to do yours then I
won’t bother to do mine.”
“If you serve me I will serve you. If you fight me I will fight you.”
“Life is 50/50 whatever you give me, you will get in return. No
more, No less.”
“Let meet at the middle; You gain some I gain some.”
The man says: Give me sex and I will give you money.”
The wife says: “Give me money and I will give you sex.”
3) GREAT MARRIAGES: 3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
A great marriage is not just another marriage. It is such marriage
that makes all parties involved to be greatly happy due to the fact
that all involved are putting great efforts into the marriage to
make it work by all means.
People in a great marriage says,
“We may not feel the same right now, but I’m going to exit my
world and enter your world.”
“I’m going to take care of your needs.”
“What can I do for you.”
I want to make you happy.”
“I want to speak your love language.”
“I want to see to your well being.”
“Without you I am not complete.”
“I am committed to your joy, progress and prosperity.”
“I value you.”
“I love you.”
“You are the best.”
It is a marriage of the following people:
Servants,
Lovers,
Companions,
Lifter, and
Pillars.
Do you want a marriage of your dream? Do you want a great
Marriage?
Then, answer these questions:
Can you sacrifice your inclination to be self-absorbed or
detached?
Can you bend down backward to serve?
Can you lose your right to make things right?
Can you forgive when you are truly offended and hurt?
Can you sacrifice your pleasure for the pains of service?
Can you give all you have for few or nothing in return? 3 KINDS OF MARRIAGE
If you answer yes to all these questions then you are ready for a
great Marriage-
