+-By Bisi Adewale
ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
In Marriage you must develop positive attitude in the following
issues to have a strong marriage.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
ATTITUDE TO MONEY: You must develop attitude of
savings, budgeting, giving and making of money lawfully and
lovingly.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
You must avoid the negative attitude of Extravagancy, stinginess,
laziness, impulse buying, love of money, plan-less spending etc.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
ATTITUDE TO OPPOSITE SEX
You must also develop positive attitude to opposite sex. Treat
elderly ones as mothers or fathers, treat younger ones as your
sisters or brothers, treat your mates as friends.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
Deal with the negative attitude that makes you see opposite sex as
a sex tool; as somebody to be used, abused or fight.
ATTITUDE TO WORK
Great attitude to work involves diligence, excellence, customer
care, carefulness, skill, integrity, service, uprightness etc
Negative attitude to work on involves: Laziness, imperfection,
mediocrity, thoughtlessness, idleness, carelessness, Negligence.
etc ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
ATTITUDE TO CONFLICT
“All of us who are spiritually mature should have this same
attitude. But if some of you have a different attitude, God will
make this clear to you.”
Philippians3:15GNB
Develop the good attitude that sees conflict as a way to agree to
move forward. Stop seeing every disagreement as war that must
be fought to finish.
Destroy the attitude of terminating relationships because of little
conflicts that could have been resolved with both parties happily
moving on.
ATTITUDE TO IN-LAWS: Most people develop a negative
disposition towards their in-laws. They believe that in-laws are
enemies that must be fought at all times and there is nothing good
in them. This is a very bad attitude.
Develop a good attitude that sees your in-laws as part of your life
and family. At least they gave birth to your beloved spouse so
celebrate them.
ATTITUDE TO SPOUSE: It’s a good and positive attitude to
see your spouse as your team mate and partner and realize that
you will disagree from time to time on some issues but you both
must agree to move forward in all things. You should also realize
you are married to an imperfect person, who will sometimes make
mistakes and you must be ready to forgive and to move on.
ATTITUDE TO MARRIAGE: It is a very wrong attitude to see
marriage as a battle field. As a place where you have to fight to
finish.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
You need to see marriage as a place of love and joy, a place to love
and be loved and as a place of service and sacrifice.
ATTITUDE TO SEX: Many have wrong attitude to sex. One of
them is to see all other opposite sex than your spouse as a potential
sex partner. Another one is to hate sex totally with one’s spouse.
Others are: having wrong mentality about sex in Marriage
thinking, that sex in marriage is dirty, unrighteousness or that it
must not take place in the afternoon, on Sundays or when the
woman is pregnant or breast feeding.ATTITUDE TO MANAGE RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE
Right attitude to sex in marriage is what makes you know that sex
in marriage is good and that it is for pleasure, communion,
sharing and procreation. This right disposition enables one to
behave rightly towards sex while enjoying it with one’s partner
regularly and creatively. Proverbs 5:15-19.
