HELP! FOOLISH PRANK ON FACEBOOK IS DESTROYING MY MARRIAGE
Hi,
My name is Juliet,am married to a very loving and jovial man with two Children, we live in Liverpool, UK.HELP! FOOLISH PRANK ON FACEBOOK IS DESTROYING MY MARRIAGE
My problems started three Months ago while I and my Husband were at home.He was sleeping with our baby in his hands almost dropping off while I was sitting on a Chair, I snapped his picture to play prank on him before he waking him up. I later sent the picture to one of his friend with a caption of “Nursing Father” the friend laughed and sent the picture to another friends with everybody having a good laugh everything in a positive way,my husband was not even aware of it.
Few weeks ago,the picture appeared on facebook and people tagged my husband but they began to call him names,useless father,careless one,the picture went viral generating more than 1000 bad and abusive comments,I felt so bad when I saw the comments.
The posting on the Facebook later got to my husband more than one month after snapping the picture.
When he saw the picture; he knew I was the one that snapped it.He read the comments and became mad with me,he didn’t allow me to explain,he felt cheated,naked and abused in the public,He picked his bags and move out of the house.Since then, I have been trying to reach him to explain but without success,He believed I did it to ridicule him,he felt betrayed by me and his friends,he even disconnected from friends who were involved in the issue.
I have been naked since then,the love of my life is gone, it’s like half of me is paralyzed, please what can I do? Please, help me beg him to come back home.
Joe, if you are reading this,please forgive me I love you,I can’t hurt you, your Juli still want you.It was a mistake, I never meant to hurt you, I am sorry in a million time, Please come back,our two daughters are waiting,I will never do it again.Please joe!please joe!!I am sorry.
COUNSELOR:
Hi Juliet,
I can’t blame you for what happened if the way you said it is the way it is. What we need to do now is how to get your husband back because I know you still love him with all your heart.
Since you are a Christian,the first thing is to pray for is divine intervention. Pray to God to teach you the right thing to do.
Go on the Facebook and start another campaign,tell everybody what happened how loving and caring your husband was and what led to the picture and how their bad comments had affected your marriage badly. Praise him on the site,drop a poem,do a love video to beg him(if you can cry in the video,why not?) drop other pictures of him playing with you and the Children, then tell all to beg him on your behalf to come back home.
I believe people will change their comments and it will turn him to an hero when he stumble on it,Trust God to use this to touch him and you will have your husband back.
Joe if you are reading this,please forgive Juliet,she loves you,Please, come back home,she said she is sorry,please forgive her.
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