13 QUESTIONS YOU MUST NEVER ASK YOUR HUSBAND
-Bisi Adewale
There are some questions wives must never ask their husbands for their own good and to avoid hearing the truth that may raise their blood pressure or even turn you to hypertension patient.You don’t need answers to these questions as they may be injurious to your well being:
1) WHO DO YOU LOVE MORE BETWEEN ME AND YOUR MUM? Hmmmnn!,This is hard for him,do you want him to tell lie or say the truth? It should be obvious to you, if you are a Terrific wife that he loves you more than his Mum.If you are a terrible wife, cooks badly, careless,and not motherly ;he will still be missing his Mum seriously. 13 QUESTIONS YOU MUST NEVER ASK YOUR HUSBAND
2) DO YOU WANT MORE SEX? Oh,what do you expect him to say,I can answer that for him.He needs more tantalizing sex;he crave for more,that is one thing he can’t have too much of.You don’t need to ask.Gear up to give more,yes,give him more.
3) IF I DIE; WILL YOU RE MARRY? Death? Are you preparing to die now? Die first and let see.
4) DO YOU LOVE MY MUM? Ahhh!He does; that is why he is still with you her daughter. Don’t ask beyond that,you don’t need to know the truth. Or do you want him to say your mum pokes nose too much? 13 QUESTIONS YOU MUST NEVER ASK YOUR HUSBAND
5) WHO IS BETTER IN BED BETWEEN YOUR EX AND I ? : Whao! You are treading on dangerous path.Do you want him to remember what he calls ” good old days”? What if he is blunt and want to be truthful and says his ex is better,terrific,more solid,real acrobatic and a bedroom tiger,but you; a bad performer, what will you say? It’s heart attack may kill you.Don’t ask.
6) WHO WAS THE FIRST WOMAN YOU HAD SEX WITH,DO YOU STILL LOVE HER ?: If he tells you the truth,it may shock you and may increase your adrenalin to the highest level if he tells you he still remember her and that their time together is still the best.For your peace’s sake ,don’t ask.13 QUESTIONS YOU MUST NEVER ASK YOUR HUSBAND
7) HOW MANY WOMEN DID YOU HAVE SEX WITH BEFORE YOU MARRIED ME? What will you do if you know the number, why troubling your peaceful life? Don’t ask, don’t expect an answer. Remember it was his private life before he ever met you, don’t raise your blood pressure.
8) HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU SLEEP WITH YOUR EX? This is a wrong question.What if he says you should give him time to call his ex to ask the number, or chat with her on whatsApp to get the details.The shock may kill you. Don’t ask.
9) HOW MANY GIRLS ABORTED FOR YOU BEFORE WE MET ? Let me answer on his behalf. “None to the best of my knowledge” you don’t need this,you need not know, just keep your peace.
10) HAVE YOU EVER LUSTED AFTER ANY OTHER WOMAN SINCE YOU MARRIED ME AND WHO IS SHE?
If he tells you the truth,you may collapse. What if she says that,the person is your sister.What will you do ?Don’t ask.
11) AT WHAT AGE DID YOU START HAVING SEX? What a question? Why did you ask,what will you do with that information? Is it his birthday ? You don’t need it.So, don’t ask. If she tells you; you may go into coma.13 QUESTIONS YOU MUST NEVER ASK YOUR HUSBAND
12) AM I STILL BEAUTIFUL? I know you don’t want an honest answer in this case; All you want is validation and praise. You want him to make you feel good, fill your emotional bank and help your self esteem.
But sorry sister, whole lots of husband don’t know this, as they often think you want an honest answer. Your husband may be one of them,What if he says,Hmmn!,”you used to be very beautiful,but no longer the case,it would have been manageable,if not for the stretch mark in your body;fallen breast;your exceptionally big hip;wrinkle in your face;tummy that looks like tarpaulin and fat that is everywhere” what will you do,won’t you collapse? Why don’t you just tell him that “I need you to make me feel good about my self’’ rather than asking am I still beautiful?
13) HAVE YOU EVER SLEPT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN SINCE I MARRIED YOU: Only few men can answer this question truthfully. You expect a NO! for an answer,yes you will get it,but please don’t press further,you may get the shock of your life.Don’t bother to ask,you don’t need that answer.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
