MARRIAGE: 21 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN BEFORE MARRIAGE (part1)

May 11, 2016

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MARRIAGE: 21 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN BEFORE MARRIAGE

Back view of mid-adult couple holding hands walking on beach with seashell in foreground.

A man going into marriage needs to note several things about women before getting marry. This will help him to relate well with his own woman, having knowledge and understanding as commanded by the Lord.

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered (1 Peter 3:7 KJV).

Having deep knowledge of women, their likes, dislikes, habits, nature, emotional make up, strengths and weaknesses will boost your marriage a lot, and many things that may ordinarily annoy you will be understood to be normal. Some of these are:

1) There is a 16-year-old girl in every woman who will ever refuse to grow: No matter her age every woman will behave like a 16-year-old girl who is receiving a great attention, letters, love, love texts, gifts, care, praise from a 18-year-old young man.
2) Women are emotional beings: That is why they are called FEMALE: FEELING-MALE, MALE WITH FEELINGS.
3) Women are slower than men.
4) Women love details.
5) Women can easily be tired.
6) Pregnant women are totally different from what they are before the pregnancy: They can be sluggish, slower, sickly and so on.
7) An average woman wants sex two or three times a month: So boy, sorry; sex is not 24/7 in marriage as you think.
8) Women can easily cry: A woman can cry when afraid, sad or even when too happy.
9) Good relationship with husband and children do make women feel fulfil.
10) Women often feel insecure about her breast size or shape.
11) If you hold a child by the hand, you are already holding the mother by the heart: Women do have deep emotional attachment to their children. One of the ways to win your wife is to be a great dad to your children and be totally involved in child bearing, rearing and training. So be ready to tie nappy, baby sit, attend Parent-Teachers meeting, help with homework and so on.
12) Women always have “nothing to wear” even if their closet is overloaded with stuff: Constant gifts of clothes and shoes will make you a darling.
13) When a woman says to a man: “Well… nothing…” She means an entirely different thing. She means “there are lots of things but you need to press me further before I open up.”
14) When a woman cries, she would love someone to see it and offer her a cuddle.
15) When a woman goes on a 3-day trip, she usually packs over 7 outfits, just in case she will hesitate about what to wear.
16) When a woman dresses up and asks how I look, she is looking for appreciation not judgment. In fact, she is not looking for your sincere assessment of her looks if that assessment is not positive.
17) The number one need of a woman is affection.
18) The number two need of a woman is attention.
19) The number three need of a woman is communication.
20) Women need provision: Provide for her. Give her love, money, bags, shoes, cloths, care.
21) Women need appreciation: She wants you to appreciate her looks, dressing, food, cleaning of the house, children looks and everything she does.