Marriage

WALKING INTO A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE

May 26, 2020

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WALKING INTO A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE

Bisi Adewale

You can decide the state of your marriage. This implies you can make it either great or bad. It all depends on your walk in it. You can walk your way to a better marriage or a difficult one. If you desire to walk your way to a better marriage, then do the following:

DEVELOP THE RIGHT ATTITUDE: The right attitude to money, time, sex, love, in-laws, etc. is very important if a better marriage is your dream. Your attitude will determine how far your marriage will go because attitude is life. The wrong attitude will give birth to a bad marriage. Work on your attitude.

HAVE THE RIGHT THINKING: The right attitude cannot be without the right thinking. When you change your thinking rightly, you change your attitude. You change your marriage to a better one. Let your thinking about your spouse, money, in-laws, sex, love, etc. be in line with the scriptures. You cannot go wrong.

HAVE AN EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SYSTEM: A better marriage comes through better and effective communication. Effective communication comes through the right communication system. The right communication involves the following:

Develop Positive Actions: Your daily actions ultimately determine what your marriage will be. Your daily actions which will be cultured by your thinking and attitude is what your spouse will live with. It will determine his or her actions too. Negative actions beget negative actions; positive actions lead to more positive actions. These will determine the health of the union.

Always Come With Positive Reactions: How you react to your spouse’s actions will also be a great determinant in the state of your marriage. If your spouse’s actions are wrong and you react negatively, the result will be very turbulent. But if you learn to quench negative actions with positive reactions, you will get a better marriage in your hands

WALK WITH HUMILITY: Many won’t believe that pride is a major killer of marriage, yes it is. A marriage of two pompous and cocky people can be very turbulent and battle prone. Pride will make a man not to take advise from his wife or listen to her correction or counsel. Pride will make a woman not to be humble or submit to her husband. When a woman is proud, she will be a difficult and stubborn wife. She will be unyielding, unbending and uncontrollable by her husband. She will be the kind of wife that makes the home difficult.