TRINITY OF EXCELLENT PARENTING
- Bisi Adewale
“And Reuben answered them, saying, Spake I not unto you, saying, Do not sin against the child; and ye would not hear? therefore, behold, also his blood is required.”
Genesis 42:22 KJV
Excellent Parenting Is a Parenting work that gives room for a child to be loved, taught,trained,Moulded and led in the way of The Lord,giving room to raising triple G Children(Godly,Good and great Children)
There are 3 Major often forgeoten, often ignore in Parenting work and they are the Keys to the success of our Parenting
1) VISION:
“Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.”
Proverbs 29:18 KJV
– Purpose is the ignition of the life of a Child, Vision is the gear of his destiny
– Many life and destiny are in Neutral gear all their lives
– When Sin mixed with absence of Vision the life of a Child will enter reverse gear.
– If you raise a Child with Vision, you will work with Caution
– Absence of vision is the greatest killer of destiny
MANOAH ASKED FOR VISION AND DIRECTION
“And Manoah arose, and went after his wife, and came to the man, and said unto him, Art thou the man that spakest unto the woman? And he said, I am. And Manoah said, Now let thy words come to pass. How shall we order the child, and how shall we do unto him? And the angel of the Lord said unto Manoah, Of all that I said unto the woman let her beware. She may not eat of any thing that cometh of the vine, neither let her drink wine or strong drink, nor eat any unclean thing: all that I commanded her let her observe.”
Judges 13:11-14 KJV
– Every Parent should asked God what a Child is meant to do.
2) INTENTIONALITY
“Whoso keepeth the fig tree shall eat the fruit thereof: so he that waiteth on his master shall be honoured.”
Proverbs 27:18 KJV
– To raise Godly Children, you must be deliberate, you must be intentional,
– You must be like a Farmer who plant in his farm, water it, weed it deliberately to get a good yield. Corn can not grow without deliberate effort.
FORMS OF PARENTING:
– FREE RANGE PARENTING
No parenting work at all, Children are living their lives the way it pleases them, they live like Village goats and Chicken.
– KICK AND FOLLOW PARENTING
This involves Parenting without Vision, Teaching, training and direction
– DELIBERATE PARENTING
This involves, Vision, Direction, Planning, Strategies deliberately carried out to fulfill a Purpose.
3) AVAILABILITY:
“The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.”
Proverbs 29:15 KJV
– When they cant see you when they are young, you wont see them when you are old
– Parenting work can not be done by proxy.
– After God created Adam he was available to breath on him, that is when he became a living soul.
“And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.”
Genesis 2:7 KJV
