Symptoms of An Eroding Love
Symptoms of An Eroding Love
– Bisi Adewale
When you notice any of the following in your marriage know that erosion is gradually eating deep into your home:
(a) Loneliness. If your spouse is with you but you are still feeling lonely, desolate and dejected, check it. Something is already wrong with your marriage, even if you are not yet fighting.
(b) Lack of excitement. You are no more excited about the home coming of your spouse, you are no more looking forward to seeing him or her and nothing excites you about him/her.
(c) You don’t miss her/him. Even if he travels for months, you don’t feel the absence. Rather you are happy, “he or she that troubles Israel has travelled”.
(d) Emotional block. When you have an emotional block towards somebody, it means you do not have any feeling for that person. His or her joy does not give you joy; the sadness does not affect you and you may even be happy to see the person in pains. That is the state men who beat their wives are in. They are happy to see their wives in tears and agony. If you notice this in your marriage, you better look for help immediately before it is too late.
(e) Constant misunderstanding. If you discover you disagree often and virtually on everything, you should know that something is wrong because lovers do agree.
(f) Absence of romance. In those days, you could hug, kiss, hold hands and enjoy each other’s company. But now, hardly can you touch each other for long except for sexual intercourse.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale
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