51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)

51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)

-Bisi Adewale

51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)

Every woman love to remain a babe in the hands of her husband they don’t want to be treated as a madam, don’t want to be treated as oldies. The truth is, your wife is as old as you make her to feel, so go ahead treat her like a babe, yes she is your babe, the girl you were running after just a few years ago. Make her happy, if you give her love she will give you comfort.Please,get the Part one of this post in order to get the full message.51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)
26:  TO DO LOVE: Make your wife number one on your “to do” list everyday, always put her into your schedule.
27: LAP LOVER: Find pleasure in sitting her on your lap, treat her like a baby, pamper her, make her happy DONT ever shout on her.
28:  SURPRISE!SURPRISE: Let there be element of surprises in your home, give her a surprise gift, surprise birthday bash, surprise touch, surprise your wife always, ignite love, don’t let her be able to predict you in this.
29: GREAT SHAPES: stop complaining about her shape and outlook. Appreciate her outlook always, look on the positive side of her life.
30: DAY GOODNESS: Be nice to her during the day; don’t wait till the night time before you do this. Let there be little act of thoughtfulness, send text messages, intimate phone calls, thoughtful gifts, bunch of flowers and support in the kitchen
31:  COOL DAYS: create room for cool days when your phones will be off for the better part of the day, no visitor, no going out, it is a lovers day for both of you, make it a day of romance, discussion, attention and affection. Appreciate her generously and make her happy, your darling wife deserve more than this.
32: LOVE IN DISHES: Can you help her with the dishes tonight? Yes, help her to do the dishes when she is busy with other things this does not demean you or remove Mr from your name, you are still the head of the family and the Chief lover at home.51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)
33: HUMOR MONGER: Crack joke at home, good jokes, positive jokes, healthy jokes not the one that will hurt or demean her. A MARRIAGE WITHOUT HUMOR IS LIKE A CAR WITHOUT BUMPER, IT WILL LOOK UGLY, VERY UGLY.
35:  SOFT SPORT: Be soft at home, let your wife be able to play with you without fear. And talk to you without having high blood pressure. Stop squeezing your face like Okwonko in Things fall Apart, (that novel by Chinua Achebe).  Stop been hard at home, be a friend, be a lover.

35: BE PLAYFUL: Don be too serious at home, don’t terrify her don’t be an executive husband, don’t intimidate her,be gentle be playful. Most men can be playful and jovial elsewhere but not at home, this is totally wrong, playfulness is the mother of romance play with your wife.
36: DEEP TALK: When she want to talk to you, turn to her fully, close the newspaper, off the television, put down the phone and don’t pick it during the discussion. Don’t touch the iPad, listen with rap attention, like you were doing before she married you, listen and react, your reaction may be nodding your head, smile, reply. one of the greatest need of a woman is the need for deep discussion, they can never outgrown this,please satisfy the woman that gave you her all.
37: CUDDLE WITHOUT SEX: get her on your chest, move her closer to you especially when she is tired,fearful,sad or stressed. Do this without sex in mind let her just feel like a baby which she is in your arm. Watch her sleep in your arm,you will discover she is very beautiful,yes she is.
38: HOME LOVE: Decide to stay at home during the weekend just to be with her and let her know you are at home because of her. Spend most of the time with her; talking,gusting,playing, just make the moment pleasant for her.51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)
39: BABY LOVE: lock her inside the room,don’t permit the children to enter,for about six hours just let her sleep,this can be on Saturday or public holiday or after the service on sunday. Take good care of the children through out this period,tell them mummy need rest, let her enjoy herself. Cook the food,take it to her in the room and let her continue her rest,it is a “weekend off” for her,she is not going to cook or care for the children it is your duty guy,be a good guy,do it well.
40: BODY LOVE:  after her sojourn in the kitchen and with your children,lay her down and give her quality body massage, from her head to her toe,a good massage oil is suggested but not compulsory,sex is not the focus in this kind of massage but you may end up been rewarded for a job well done if you so it well, Who knows
41: DINNIG LOVE: After eating food cooked by her,turn to her in the presence of all the children and say,this is a nice meal,children rise up,take a bow for mummy,clap for her and say mummy we enjoy your meal you are too much. Make all of them to Hug her one after the other and say mummy you are too good. Do this often.
42: VALUE HER: It is interesting to see how boyfriends normally treat their girl friends,compare it to the way men treat their wives, the difference is totally clear. Most men treat their wives without regard,let this change,treat her with honor and respect,don’t just tell her ” I love you” tell her “I value you”, DONT just say it; show it,stop every other thing to attend to her,treat her as you would treat her if she is still your girlfriend. Treat her like a queen,the first lady,handle her with great honor and reverence,she will become better for you and flow in new love and romance to your satisfaction.

43: DECLARE A GIFT MONTH OR WEEK: Buy gift for her every day of that month or week. it may be the month of her birthday.tell her it is your gift month or week. Go ahead, buy gifts for her every day,from little to big one,just be creative. From camisole, to wrist watch,phone,handkerchief,shoe,suit,car,iPad,bag,book,cloth,scarf,hat,fridge,oven,refrigerator,fruits you know she love,micro wave oven,gas cooker,washing machine,blender,pepper soup,bible,dish washer,night dress,neck lace. Beads, make up kit,massage oil,perfume,cream,powder,brassiere,biscuits,snacks,nice panties etc. remember she is not just your wife she is your babe take good care of her.51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)

44: VERBAL LOVE: Say nice thing about her in the  presence of outsiders. Praise her in the public,recognize her as a special person in your life.NEVER CRITICIZE OR CONDEMN IN THE PUBLIC.

45: VERBAL LOVE 2: Say nice things to your darling wife. Things like: “am glad I married you” ,”great job girl” “you look beautiful baby” “you are  great wife” “I can’t exchange you for a million dollar” “you look like angel” “you are reliable” “you are the best cook” “you are the best among women” “you are a gem” “I thank God for the day I met you” etc

46: VERBAL LOVE 3: Go ahead say more of this often. “I love you” “I value you” “you are a great woman” “you are invaluable” “you are a blessing to me” “you are a good person” “you are the best in bed” “you have Midas touch” “you are romantic” “you are a darling” “you are my heart beat” “you are God sent to me” “you a prayer answered to me” Say this words regularly to your wife and she will forever be your babe.

47: KNEE LOVE: Let her knee down before you,place her head on your lap as you sit on a chair,place your right hand on her  head and your left hand on her back( see the picture below) begin to pray for her,she does not need to say amen, let her just lie down there,bless her for more than 15 minutes as a father would a great daughter,she may even sleep off as you bless her,it is part of the deal,if she totally relax,she can sleep off as she enter the state of rest and joy. If she sleep off leave her and let her sleep like that for a long time or you may take her and gently lay her on bed and let her sleep,what a day it will be for your babe,your lover,the best woman in the world.
48:  LOVE IN DISHES: Can you help her with the dishes tonight? Yes ,help her to do the dishes when she is busy with other things this does not demean you or remove Mr from your name,you are still the head of the family and the Chief lover at home.
49: HUMOR MONGER: Crack joke at home,good jokes,positive jokes,healthy jokes not the one that will hurt or demean her. A MARRIAGE WITHOUT HUMOR IS LIKE A CAR WITHOUT BUMPER,IT WILL LOOK UGLY,VERY UGLY.
50: SOFT SPORT: Be soft at home,let your wife be able to play with you without fear. And talk to you without having hogh blood pressure.Stop squeezing your face like Okwonko in Things fall Apart,(that novel by Chinua Achebe).  Stop been hard at home, be a friend, be a lover.

51:  BE PLAYFUL: Don be too serious at home,don’t terrify her don’t be an executive husband,don’t intimidate her,be gentle be playful. Most men can be playful and jovial else where but not at home,this is totally wrong,playfulness is the mother of romance play with your wife.51 WAYS TO TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A BABE (Part 2)

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter@bisiadewale