Marriage

19 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE LOSING YOUR HUSBAND

September 8, 2023

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– Bisi Adewale

Waiting till your husband starts sleeping around to connect to him may be too late. There are early signs a man will give if he is not satisfied with you. If you discover them in your marriage, quickly take action before the man becomes totally uninterested in you. These signs include:

His Silence. He suddenly talks less to you or your children. He answers your questions with a mono-syllable, will not really greet you. If you do greet him, he will answer casually.
Your Words Irritate Him. If you play or talk to him, he feels you are disturbing him. He doesn’t like being ‘disturbed’ when at home. He will only keep to himself.
He spends longer time outside than at home. He prefers staying at office, church, with friends than to be at home even on weekends and public holidays.
He doesn’t laugh at your jokes. Nothing you say amuses him even if it makes others fall into fits of laughter.
He separates rooms. He moves out of your bedroom or he may ask you to move out with excuses that he wants to have time to pray think or meditate.
He avoids praying with you. You’ve been praying together before now but he suddenly avoids praying with you. He just loves to do his own thing.
He doesn’t play with you. He stops playing with you or crack jokes as he does to other.
He becomes unpredictable. You can’t predict him, you don’t know his mind, and you don’t know his schedule.
No more caring. He doesn’t care about your welfare and that of the children anymore. He becomes non-challenge to the welfare of the home.
He becomes difficult. He becomes difficult to relate with. Little things annoy him, and nothing you do seems to satisfy him or make him happy.
He complains about you and the children a lot. He complains practically about everything. If your soup has much pepper, then it is salty, if it is not too watery, it definitely is too thick.
He rejects food regularly. He regularly leaves his supper untouched or rejects food in fits of anger.
Frequent quarrels. He picks quarrels too early, fights you about everything, or shouts at the slightest provocation.
Love is Lost. He shows or says he does not love you again. He does not display any affection or give you attention.
Sex life is suffering. He doesn’t call you for sex again and if you try to make him do it, he gives an excuse that he is tired or fasting. What you normally do to “turn him on” before seems not to work again. If he does sleep with you, he will do it mechanically without love, passion or enjoyment. He just does it out of duty or to have sexual release.
He doesn’t have any respect for you any longer. He is fond of embarrassing and abusing you. He does everything to make you miserable.
He becomes a night crawler. He goes out early and comes home late at night every day of the week.
He stops going to church. Nothing about God moves him and he has lost passion for the things of God.
He stops partaking in the family altar. He doesn’t take the lead in the family altar again, even if you motivate him, he will not be part of it.