Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 1

Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 1

Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 1

-Bisi Adewale

There is no behavior without reason. We need to examine reasons why Christian youths do fall into the sins of fornication.
Please note that sexual relationship is divided into three, namely:
(a) Pre-marital sex (fornication)
(b) Pure (Holy or Legal) sex
(c) Extra – Marital Sex (Adultery)
Pre-marital sex is what most youths engage in before marriage while extra-marital sex is what some married people indulges in, when they are not faithful to their partner. Pure, holy or legal sex is the only legitimate sex, it occurs between married couples. It is Holy and wonderful, God loves it and it brings purity. I Cor. 7:5-7.
What we will be talking about here is pre-marital sex which the Bible calls fornication, though people call it “affair” “fun” or “love-making”. It is not fun, it is not love-making but fornication (sin), I would have agreed if it is called “lust-making”.

CAUSES
(1) Pressure from parents, friends, peer group, lecturer, boss, future-partners (etc): – Some men do mount pressure physically on their partners while some ladies mount pressure on their partners by dressing carelessly exposing their nakedness to seduce men.
Some male bosses in places of work do mount pressure on their female workers, they want girls that can work for them and still satisfy them sexually.
(2) Curiosity: – Many youths have engaged themselves in pre-marital sex as a result of curiosity. They thought they were searching for reality, but they ended up destroying themselves. They are not satisfied with what their parents, pastors and Christian friends told them concerning sex, they want to experience it themselves, But one thing that surprises me is that they are curious to know where people that die, after death go. But none of them has ever tried to die to have the feeling themselves.
(3) Television, Film, Radio And Video: – What •youths watch on screen determine their behaviour and character, to make matters worse, every product advertised on T. V. is just promoting sex. In fact, to advertise food items they use sex, film, Television and Radio promotes pre-marital sex. Most home videos (except Christian films) are sex promoters. Atimes they will claim they are correcting this vice but what they display on screen, destroy the youths.
Film houses are always full everyday with youths who want “to know more” when they learn the theory on screen, they then try to practice what they have watched.
(4) Books and Magazines – Some satanic authors are in town destroying the youths, they write some sexual stories, books and magazines, they bring out many pictures that stimulate the youth to think about sex always. Having read all these books, youths do become restless until they have put into practice what they learnt in the books and magazines.

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:  www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale

Pre-Marital Sex – Causes of premarital sex Pt 1