EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE
EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE
By Bisi adewale
- See your own part of it: –Never lay the blame on your spouse or exonerate yourself. It takes two to tango.
- Take responsibility for the state of your home.
- Listen to your Partner: Let your partner talk freely, let him or her talk without intimidation, just listen.
- Respond positively: No defense, no threat and no game-playing. Respond in love.
- Look for a win-win situation: Never turn it to a contest; you are not in an Olympic Game. No matter how you resolve the issue, make it a no-victor- no-vanquished situation.
- No Retaliation: Seek to reconcile and re-connect, never revenge; if you revenge you equalize, if you forgive you win.
- Put Your own Need aside: Meet the needs of your spouse, be selfless.
- Keep on talking: If you disagree, keep on talking in love; NEVER abandon it until you are able to resolve it.
- Pray: No matter the level of your disagreement; dare to pray together. Let the Lord set in, He can still all storms.
EASY WAYS TO SETTLE A DISPUTE
- See your own part of it: –Never lay the blame on your spouse or exonerate yourself. It takes two to tango.
- Take responsibility for the state of your home.
- Listen to your Partner: Let your partner talk freely, let him or her talk without intimidation, just listen.
- Respond positively: No defense, no threat and no game-playing. Respond in love.
- Look for a win-win situation: Never turn it to a contest; you are not in an Olympic Game. No matter how you resolve the issue, make it a no-victor- no-vanquished situation.
- No Retaliation: Seek to reconcile and re-connect, never revenge; if you revenge you equalize, if you forgive you win.
- Put Your own Need aside: Meet the needs of your spouse, be selfless.
- Keep on talking: If you disagree, keep on talking in love; NEVER abandon it until you are able to resolve it.
- Pray: No matter the level of your disagreement; dare to pray together. Let the Lord set in, He can still all storms.
