BE A WOMAN OF WISDOM!
Bisi Adewale
“Through wisdom is a house buildeth, and by understanding it is established. Any by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and Pleasants riches. A wise man is strong yea, a man of knowledge increaseth in strength. (Proverbs 24:3-5).
- Speak With Wisdom. To make your husband your own forever, you must know how to talk to him with wisdom and discretion. You must become a communication expert, you must know the when, what and how of communication. You must know how to talk and how to listen, your speech must be full of grace seasoned with salt, the you can do by using “
- Right tone
- Right timing
- Right presentation
- Right use of words
- Act with Wisdom. Your attitude must be right, you must act right, you must be of good behavior base on the word of God. Your attitude towards your husband, children, in-laws, neighbours, etc must be based on wisdom and noble character.
- Think with Wisdom. Positive thinking is a sign of wisdom, negative thinking comes from unwholesome mind and it is not based on sound wisdom.
- Relate With Your Husband With Wisdom. Your relationship with your husband must be based on the wisdom of God, you can’t handle your boss in the office, he is more than that, you need to learn how to relate as a friends, wife, confidants, supporter, bed-mate, mother, helper and partner.
- Give Him Wise Suggestions. Men like wives that can give them wise suggestions, women that can be their thinking partners. This you can be for your husband, if you are the thoughtful type. If you always give him good suggestions he will always love to talk to you.
- Handle In-laws Wisely. In-laws can be terrible if you don’t handle them wisely, they may be terrible and difficult turning from in-law to ‘ill-luck’ if you handle wisely.
- Handle Life Wisely. Your positions as a wife, mother and career woman are demanding; you need wisdom to balance life, a life that gives the best, you must not live a lopsided life. You are expected to be a solid Christian, a great wife, a good mother and a successful career or business woman, you see; you need wisdom to be all these.
- Handle Conflict Wisely. Learn to handle conflict, misunderstanding, anger, unmet expectations wisely. Don’t allow conflict to determine your life; rather determine what you will do with conflict. Be in charge!
- Handle Money Wisely. You can’t handle money anyhow; it will hurt you and your marriage. Learn how to make money, how to manage it well by spending it wisely saving it and investing it.
©Bisi Adewale 2020
