This is not just another message. This is a wake-up call. A soul cry. A love alarm screaming for urgent attention. If your marriage feels cold, confusing, or disconnected… it’s time.Time to hit the reset button. Time to stop enduring and start enjoying again, time to REBOOT.
Here are 9 fiery reasons why you must reboot your marriage right now:
1. You’re Growing Apart Silently. Every day of silence, avoidance, or fake smiles pushes you further from the one you once couldn’t live without. Reboot now before love turns to numbness.
2. You’re Living as Roommates, Not Soulmates. You share a house, a bed, maybe even kids, but your hearts are no longer beating in sync. This is not what marriage was meant to be.
3. Unspoken Hurts Are Piling Up. Every ignored apology. Every unsaid word. Every emotional wound you both pretend doesn’t exist is poisoning your connection. Healing won’t come without a reset.
4. Passion Is Fading Fast. You’re not just missing sex; you’re missing intimacy. Touch. Warmth. That spark that made your heart race. You can reignite it, but not without effort.
5. Your Children Are Watching. They are learning about love from you. If they see tension, distance, or disrespect, they’ll carry that into their own futures. Reboot for their sake.
6. One of You May Be Slipping Away Emotionally. Affection from others starts to look appealing when you don’t feel seen or valued at home. Reboot before emotional unfaithfulness becomes reality.
7. Bitterness Is Becoming a Third Party. Resentment is a silent killer. It eats at your joy, your peace, and your ability to forgive. Reboot to detox your hearts before it’s too late.
8. You’re Not Happy, But You Pretend. Social media smiles and church appearances don’t fix private tears. You were made for joy, not just survival.
9. God Has More for Your Marriage Than This. He didn’t bring you together to fight, suffer, or drift. He has a plan, a beautiful, powerful, joyful plan, but you must choose to reboot.
Don’t wait for a breakdown. Choose a breakthrough. Don’t settle for cold love. Reignite the fire. Don’t live like strangers. Come home to each other again.
It’s time to reboot. Urgently. Passionately. Intentionally.
Your marriage is worth fighting for, not later, but NOW.
Click the link below to Join the REBOOT WhatsApp group to learn how to join MARRIAGE REBOOT BOOTH CAMP (MRC) coming up in the month of July 2025. https://chat.whatsapp.com/Dhjao93IHl68UM2Msoglkv
With all the fire in my heart.
Bisi Adewale
Marriage Clinician
