22 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOUR INTENDING SPOUSE IS SELFISH

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22 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOUR INTENDING SPOUSE IS SELFISH

Bisi Adewale 

If two or more of these attributes best describe you or your spouse to be, then selfishness has to be dealt with. If you see a clearer picture of your “love” in over five to ten attributes, I can only advise you to do the right thing. People hardly change in marriage, so safe yourself the headache and deal with the situation now.

1.          He or she likes to receive gifts, but he will never give you anything. 

2.          Always likes to talk about himself or herself.

3.          Despises and runs down anything not done by him or her. 

4.          Always wants to win arguments and will continue to argue until he or she wins.

5.          Loves to be served, but cannot serve anybody. 

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6.          The terms “I”, “Me”, “Mine”, ‘’Myself” are the most commonly used words in his or her vocabulary. 

7.          Gets angry easily when he or she is not given what he or she thinks he or she desires. 

8.          Gets angry when he or she does not have his or her way. 

9.          Always wants to take glory for success. 

10.    Saves money when the immediate needs of his or her loved ones are unmet. 

11.    He or she easily gets emotional about money. 

12.    Not appreciative whenever your gift is too small. 

13.    Does not bear responsibility for failures.

14.    Always wants to be loved, recognized and worshipped, but cannot do the same for anybody else.

15.    He or she is very stingy. 

16.    Loves to be praised but cannot praise anybody.

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17.    Always wants people to be supportive, but cannot support anybody. 

18.    Will only be involved in any venture if there will be something to gain from it. 

19.    Greedy with regards to money and wealth. 

20.    All his friends are people that can serve him. 

21.    Is bossy and difficult.

22.    When discussing with others, he or she always monopolises the discussion and will not allow others to talk. 

Don’t allow your so-called love to blindfold you from seeing any of these points inherent in your spouse. Don’t marry somebody that will destroy you

© Bisi Adewale 2020