EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
-By BISI ADEWALE
The presence of strange women in family breaks trust, existing bond, destroys intimacy, and engender hurts. Family harmony is annihilated and matrimony is turned to ‘matri-agony’.
1. It can lead to a bad marriage. As joy is removed and hatred takes over, the marriage deteriorates and the family is left hurt.EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
2. Untimely death. An immoral man is open to untimely death, turning the innocent wife to an early widow.
3. Wife battering. It can turn an hitherto loving husband into an aggressive man who kicks and punches his wife.
4. Sexually transmitted disease. It can expose both the husband and the wife to STDs, like Gonorrhea,syphilis, HIV, etc.EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
5. Death of intimacy and unity. Infidelity breaks togetherness, fondness, and oneness. It destroys unity and intimacy and creates grief between a man and his wife.
6. Encourages alcohol, drug and wrong association. Inordinate affections and wine are known to go hand in hand.
7. Can lead to poverty. Infidelity encourages frivolities. It takes a lot to maintain a mistress, pay hotel bills, to treat STDs, etc.
8. Family abandonment. Lots of men abandon their family for their mistresses. I know a man who deserted his wife and eight (8) children because of a strange woman.EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
9. Death of spiritual life. Immorality leads to enmity with God, loss of spiritual intimacy, ministering angels and ultimately loss of eternal life.
10. Polygamy. Secret relationships can grow till it becomes an illicit marriage known as polygamy.
11. Loss of focus. It can make a man lose focus of his vision, family and relationship with God. It leads to destiny crash and life destruction (Proverbs 31:3)
12. Bad example for children. Children of immoral men are likely to be chips off the old block, thereby becoming bad husbands and father while their daughters may find it difficult to trust any man.EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
13. Danger of progressive sin. Adultery walks simultaneously with lying, abortion (murder of unborn an child), stealing of money in the office to maintain an extravagant and immoral life style.
14. Sword in the family. Just like sword entered the house of David when he committed adultery with Bathsheba, 21st century adulterer calls for judgment of God upon themselves and the woman they are involved with. The resultant effects are agony and tears for their wives and children.EFFECTS OF STRANGE WOMEN ON FAMILY LIFE
