7 THINGS THAT MAKES A GREAT HUSBAND
Bisi Adewale
One cold night, a billionaire met a poor old man outside. He asked him, “Don’t you feel cold being outside, and not wearing any coat?” The old man replied, “I don’t have it but I got used to that.” The billionaire then said, “Wait for me. I will enter my house now and bring you one.” The poor man became so happy and said he would wait for him.
The billionaire entered his house but got busy there and forgot the poor man. In the morning, he remembered that poor old man and he went out to search for him but he found him dead because of the cold. He left a note.
“When I didn’t have any warm clothes, I had the power to fight the cold because I was used to that. But when you promised to help me, I got attached to your promise and that took my power of resisting”.
Don’t promise anything if you can’t keep it. It might not mean anything to you, but it could mean everything to someone else.
There were promises you made to your wife before she decided to marry you. You promised your wife love, care and security. You must be a promise keeper all the days of your life.
7 THINGS THAT MAKES A GREAT HUSBAND
- PROTECTION OF YOUR WIFE:Go all out to protect your wife and children. You must defend them, stand by them and be there for them at all times.
- BE YOUR WIFE’S LOVERBOY:Please, don’t just be a husband, be a lover boy of your wife. Show her affection, take care of her and give her gifts regularly.
- ATTEND TO YOUR WIFE:Give attention to your wife, don’t turn her to a family calendar. Spend quality time with her daily.
- COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH YOUR WIFE:Talk effectively to your wife. Let her know your mind, plans and vision. Talk to her deeply, lovingly and openly.
- PROVIDE FOR YOUR WIFE: Make adequate provision for your wife. Make her comfortable to the best of your ability. Be a responsible husband.
- APPRECIATE YOUR WIFE:Be appreciative to your wife. Appreciate her good looks, good cooking, motherhood, prayers and performances in the bedroom.
- CELEBRATE YOUR WIFE:Wherever you are, celebrate your wife. Treat her like a queen for she is your first lady. Never embarrass her or make her sad.
I will advise that you get these two books, 8 DESPERATE NEEDS OF YOUR WIFE and 8 DESPERATE NEEDS OF YOUR HUSBAND for you and her respectively.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
