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15 THINGS EVERY MAN SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER

December 27, 2019

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15 THINGS EVERY MAN SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER

By Bisi Adewale

It is very easy for a man to get himself busy and forget those things that are very important in life. Many things becloud a man and make him feel all is well without thinking of the future and time to come. Here, we will examine the important things you must always remember and put in the right perspective.

REMEMBER YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CREATOR

“Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them;” Ecclesiastes 12:1 KJV

Never neglect your relationship with God. Always remember that your relationship with Him is needed now, in your old age and even in eternity. Do everything to make it right and cordial. Get out of any relationship, job, situation and pleasure that is hurting your relationship with your Father.

OLD AGE IS COMING

It seems like yesterday when you got out of college. It will be like that when you will be 70 years old. “How time flies”, you will say. Remember your old age and behave like the elderly. In your old age, many of your friends who made you sin against God must have died. Your parents who are fuelling your hatred for your wife must have gone. Your children who do not allow you to remember God would have been married and leave you in the cold. Prepare for your old age now. Do this in your marriage, relationship with others, money management, parenting and your relationship with God. Remember that green leaves will wither one day. Be careful.

YOUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING YOU

Before you do anything, always remember that your children are watching you. If you don’t want them to do it, don’t do it.

RAIN DOES NOT FALL FOREVER

Make the most of your time by investing your money. Don’t waste relationships; take care of your family.

YOUR WIFE IS YOUR NURSE IN OLD AGE

When a woman is young, she is her husband’s mistress. When she becomes older, she will become her husband’s Mother. When her husband becomes old, she will become her husband’s nurse. My advice for you is to take care of your wife when you are young, lest r children take her away from you when you are old and need care and attention.

THE ENJOYMENT THAT IS IN SEX IS JUST 8 SECONDS

Maybe you didn’t know how I will tell you; the pleasure and enjoyment in sex can last for only eight seconds or less that is what sex experts revealed recently. So, nobody can enjoy sex for more than eight seconds. Can you imagine how millions of men risk their lives, integrity, career and ministry because of eight seconds of Pleasure? Renowned golfer, Tiger Woods, lost his marriage and number one position because of just eight seconds. Bill Clinton nearly lost his position as the President of America because of this. Samson, Reuben, Judah, Amnon, David and others in the Bible all lost valuable things because they went blindly to enjoy eight seconds of pleasure. So, be careful and don’t lose your life because of eight seconds. Get sex only from your wife for it is sweeter and safer at home, imported sex is always a contraband.

WOMEN ARE NOT DIFFERENT

This may help you. It has been scientifically proven that an orgasm is not sweeter from woman to woman. Women are the same, but only their faces and clothing are different. Be satisfied with your wife and stop looking for what is not lost.

HEALTH IS NOT WEALTH

People usually say, “Health is Wealth.” I think this is wrong. Health is not wealth, it is more than that. If you say that health is wealth, can you replace health with health? Not at all. Health is life, not wealth. So, take good care of your health. When health fails, every other thing becomes secondary.

PORN NEVER SATISFIES

Are you hooked on porn? You need help. Porn never satisfies, it keeps you busy, and thus, it destroys you gradually but will never satisfy you. Porn erodes values, destroys morals and encages strong men. You need to flee from it now before it destroys you.

ALCOHOL IS A KILLER

Did you know that alcohol is a silent killer? Millions of men are in the grave today because of alcohol, don’t join them.

CELEBRATE YOUR WIFE

Your wife is an angel in a skirt and a blouse. Celebrate her, take care of her and nurture her. If you worship a woman like a queen, she will take care of you like a king.

FAMILY IS EVERYTHING

Always remember that your family is the most important asset you can have. Your family members are the only ones who will be with you in your old age. Take good care of your family.

SCHOOL FEES DOES NOT RAISE A CHILD

Many men believe paying their children’s school fees means raising their children. These kind of men should always remember that school fee does not raise a child. However, care, training, discipline, love, attention and affection do.

FIGHTING YOUR CHILDREN IS FIGHTING YOUR FUTURE

You must be able to handle your children with love and care. Do not behave like average African parents who behave like terror at home and change it to a battlefield. You will need those children tomorrow than they need you today. So, be careful because if you terrify them when they are young, they will terrorise you when you are old.