30 Powerful Ways to Make Your Wife Cry for Joy This Weekend (Number 6 and 10 and 30 are the bombs)
There’s a kind of joy that breaks a woman’s heart open — not from pain, but from overwhelming love. A joy so deep, so unexpected, so pure, it brings tears to her eyes. It’s the kind of joy every wife longs for, but not every husband takes time to give.
It’s not about how much money you have, how big your house is, or how expensive the gift may be. It’s about presence.
Intention. Honor. Pursuit. Kindness. Touch. Words. It’s about a man deciding to love like Christ sacrificially, tenderly, intentionally.
This weekend, be that man. Go beyond your norm. Let her weep in your arms, not because of frustration, but because she feels deeply seen, chosen again, and completely loved.
Here are 30 powerful and intentional things you can do to make your wife cry for joy this weekend:
1. Tell Her, “Thank You for Marrying Me”
Look her in the eyes and let your heart speak. Thank her for choosing you, standing by you, building with you, and loving you. Say it with sincerity, not routine. Let her feel the weight of your gratitude.
2. Write Her a Heartfelt Love Letter
Not a casual note, but a deep, soulful letter. Tell her why you still love her. Reflect on the journey. Appreciate the little and big things. Handwritten, if possible. Let her keep it as a treasure.
3. Pray For Her and With Her
Lay your hand gently on her shoulder or head and pray sincerely. Bless her. Call her name before God. Speak peace, strength, healing, and joy into her life. Let her feel your spiritual covering.
4. Send Her a Deep Love Message During the Day
Send her a text she’s not expecting. Something thoughtful. Something tender. Something that reminds her she is always on your mind.
5. Take Over Her Weekend Chores
Let her relax. Handle the cleaning, laundry, dishes, and anything else she would normally do. Do it joyfully and completely, without being told or asked.
6. Make a Surprise Transfer Into Her Account
Even if it’s not much, do something symbolic. Send money without her asking. Call it a “love offering,” “thank you gift,” or “just because you deserve it.” No woman forgets the kindness of an unexpected blessing.
7. Follow Her to the Salon
Be present. Sit beside her. Talk to her. Carry her bag. Let her feel like a queen being escorted. Your presence may speak louder than a thousand words.
8. Buy Her Shoes and a Bag
Take her shopping or surprise her with something stylish that fits her taste. Let her know you still pay attention to what she likes.
9. Stay With Her in the Kitchen
Don’t leave her to cook alone. Join her. Help out. Gist with her. Hold her. Taste the food. Laugh with her. Show her the kitchen is not her prison it’s your shared space.
10. Give Her a Full Body Massage
Use oil. Use your hands. Be slow. Be gentle. Take your time. Let your touch communicate love, healing, and devotion.
11. Kiss Her Like You’re Still Chasing Her
That long, meaningful kiss that makes her knees go weak. No rush. No agenda. Just passion and tenderness.
12. Recreate a Special Memory
It could be your first date, your proposal, your wedding night setup — just something that takes her back to the beginning and reminds her of the journey.
13. Dance With Her Slowly in the Living Room
No music? Hum. Hold her close. Rock gently. Let her head rest on your chest. Let her feel your heartbeat. That moment may break her defenses and bring soft tears of joy.
14. Tell Her How Much She’s Grown and How Proud You Are
Talk about how she’s evolved — as a wife, mother, career woman, or business owner. Celebrate her growth. Let her know you notice and you’re proud of her.
15. Pat Her Bum Lovingly and Smile
That playful yet romantic touch reminds her that she’s still your woman, beautiful, desirable, and cherished.
16. Give Her a Weekend Off From Cooking
Order food. Take her out. Cook something. Let her sit and enjoy a meal she didn’t prepare. Let her rest from the kitchen completely this weekend.
17. Look Into Her Eyes and Say, “I See You”
Tell her you see her sacrifices, her tears, her patience, her effort, her strength. Let her know you don’t take it for granted.
18. Be Her Peace This Weekend
Don’t argue. Don’t stress her. Don’t bring up complaints. Create a peaceful atmosphere in your home. Let your presence be refreshing.
19. Worship With Her
Play worship songs she loves. Pray together. Read a scripture. Be still in God’s presence together. That spiritual connection brings a kind of joy money cannot buy.
20. Take the Kids and Let Her Rest
Occupy the children. Take them out or handle their needs. Let her nap. Let her breathe. Let her have quietness.
21. Tell Her She’s More Beautiful Than Ever
Not just for her appearance, but for her heart, her maturity, her grace, her essence. Let her know that to you, she’s aging like fine wine.
22. Speak Greatness Into Her Future
Talk about her future with hope. Tell her you believe in her dreams. Say, “You’ve not even scratched the surface of your greatness. I’m here to support you.”
23. Serve Her Breakfast in Bed
Even if it’s bread and tea, do it with love. Arrange it well. Add a flower or note. Wake her gently and say, “Just for you, my queen.”
24. Compliment Her in Front of Others
Before family, friends, or even on social media, say something amazing about her. Let her hear it. Let her glow with honor.
25. Make Her Laugh
Tell a joke. Be playful. Tease her lovingly. Laughter brings healing, and joy flows easily after a good laugh.
26. Touch Her Tenderly Throughout the Day
Hold her hand. Rub her shoulders. Stroke her hair. Let her feel the warmth of your love even in your silence.
27. Go Through Her Old Photos Together
Sit and go down memory lane. Laugh. Reminisce. Appreciate her then, and love her now even more.
28. Ask Her This Question: “How Can I Love You Better?”
Don’t assume. Ask her sincerely. Be ready to listen. Her answer will give you the key to her joy.
29. Affirm Her Body and Her Confidence
Let her know you’re still deeply attracted to her. Tell her what you love about her body, her smile, her style — and her strength.
30. Tell Her Again, “I’m Not Going Anywhere”
Reassure her heart. Say it clearly. Remind her that no matter what life brings, your love is staying. Your commitment is intact. She is safe.
Dear husband, love isn’t only expressed in expensive things. It’s revealed in small, consistent, and intentional actions done with a heart full of honor and passion. When a woman feels fully seen, safe, supported, and adored, joy rises like a river — and yes, tears of joy will fall.
Let your wife cry this weekend. Not from stress. Not from exhaustion. But from overwhelming love.
This weekend, don’t just be a man. Be her man the one who still chooses her, pursues her, and honors her with intention.
Let her cry for joy.
Bisi Adewale
Family Coach
