21 WAYS TO MANAGE ANGER IN MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale
Anger is a strange and bitter feeling of displeasure and irritation that makes you to desire to harm, hurt or criticize someone because they have done something you think it is unfair, cruel and offensive to you.
Anger is at the root of most destruction. No marriage can be destroyed except at least one person has gotten angry and refuse to forgive. It is a major marriage killer; it has destroyed many lives, companies, families, destinies, etc. We need to know how to deal with anger in marriage.
HOW TO REDUCE ANGER IN YOUR MARRIAGE
- Never take each other for granted
- Keep communication channels open
- Never use sex as a weapon
- Appreciate each other generously.
- Be patience with each other
- Always remember that your spouse is not perfect.
- Try as much as possible to meet the needs of each other.
- Respect each other
- Don’t ever permit any third party to come between you
- Recognize your husband as the head of the family.
- Recognize your wife as the queen of the family.
- Don’t listen to rumours
- Clarify anything you don; understand with your spouse.
- Express your love to each other constantly.
- Avoid embarrassing each other in the public.
- Never be financially or sexually unfaithful.
- Keep your emotion under the control of the Holy Spirit.
- Pray together always.
- Study the Bible together always.
- Always see your spouse as somebody you are privileged to have married.
- Find it easy to apologise to each other.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
