THINGS YOU CELEBRATED IN YOUR WIFE BEFORE WEDDING BUT NOW THINGS YOU NAG ABOUT IN MARRIAGE

THINGS YOU CELEBRATED IN YOUR WIFE BEFORE WEDDING BUT NOW THINGS YOU NAG ABOUT IN MARRIAGE 

Bisi Adewale

Accepting each other is a strong foundation for a solid marriage; it is the first course in the school of marital success. You cannot respect a mate you fail to accept.

“THE GRASS ALWAYS LOOKS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE”.

One thing that baffles me about marriage is that the things that attracted people to their spouses before marriage are the same things they complain about when they get married. A man attracted to a beautiful lady may say some good things about her and later say another thing in marriage.

THINGS YOU CELEBRATED IN YOUR WIFE BEFORE WEDDING BUT NOW THINGS YOU NAG ABOUT IN MARRIAGE:

BEFORE WEDDING                                   IN MARRIAGE

1. She is a good cook.                               She spends too much time in the kitchen.
2. She loves children.                                She spends too much time with the children.
3. She is religious.                                     She spends too much time in church.
4. She has feminine tenderness.                 She looks too weak.
5. She listens always.                                She lacks ideas of her own.
6. She is generous.                                    She is extravagant.
7. She is calculative.                                  She is too slow.
8. She is a good talker.                              She is talkative.
9. She is slim.                                           She is skinny.
10. She loves God                                       She is a religious bigot, a fanatic.
11. She is a good dresser.                           She is extravagant in dressing.
12. She has good taste.                              She has high taste.
13. She is robust.                                      She is too fat.
14. She is black and shiny.                         She is too black.
15. She loves her mother.                          She is soul-tie with her mother
16. She is homely.                                     She is unattractive and unfriendly.
17. She is economical.                                She is stingy.
18. She talks wisely.                                   She is proud.
19. She is industrious.                                All she knows is her job.
20. She is a deep thinker.                           She is too quiet and slow.

Unless you make up your mind to accept your wife, you will always find faults and bitterness in her  whenever you are together.

© Bisi Adewale 2020