ARE YOU A MAN OR A BOY? CHECK THIS
Bisi Adewale
Males are born, boys are born but men are made.
Whenever a woman gives birth to a child, it will be announced to be a male or a baby boy, not a man because no woman has ever given birth to a Man, nobody can do that, Men can not be Born, they are made. It is up to the child to grow up to a man or live and die a boy.
Unfortunately, millions of males live and die as boys. I believe strongly that most problems of the universe were created by boys who refused to grow up to become men.
Lots of weddings have been taking place where a priest joins a boy to a miserable woman. In marriage, the boy will hurt the young lady so deeply that it may be difficult to recognize her a few years later.
It takes a Man to make life Better, not Boys, a man will leave his Father and Mother and cleave to his wife, a Boy will still be “sucking” his Mother’s breast at 40, taking instruction on how to manage the affairs of his home from his parents and third parties.
DIFFERENCES BETWEEN BOYS AND MEN
• Boys marry for sex; men marry purposefully
• Boys are masters in marriage; men are the family chief servants
• Boys embarrass their wives; men embrace their wives.
• Boys lord over their wives; men love their wives.
• Boys hand over their wives to their families; men protect their wives.
• Boys give their wives AFFLICTION; men give their wives AFFECTION.
• Boys are controlled by their emotions; Men are controlled by their vision.
• Boys are more responsible outside their homes; men are committed to their homes.
• Boys kick their wives; men kiss their wives
• Boys are quick-tempered; men are meek and gentle.
• Boys are dependent; men are responsible.
• Boys beat women; men nurture women.
• Boys go for many girls; men go for one woman.
• Boys head to the club after work; men head home after work.
• Boys think of today only; men think of today and tomorrow of themselves and family.
• Boys are directed and led by erection; men are led by vision.
• Boys are popular among women; men are popular with their woman and children.
• Boys fight and beat their wives; men love and nurture their wives.
• Boys spend money as it comes; men save for tomorrow and invest.
• Boys buy things to impress girls; men satisfy their wives by buying things for their families.
• Boys lavish money on women; men lavish money on their wives.
• Boys hate correction; men love correction and seek counsel.
• Boys are sperm donors, nothing concerns them about parenting; men are responsible fathers at home.
• Boys lock their phones with security codes because they have skeletons in their cupboard; men are open and transparent to their wives.
• Boys pursue money in any way, even illegally. Men pursue more in such a way that their families are not in trouble.
• Boys are lovers of pleasure; men are lovers of God.
ARE YOU A MAN OR A BOY?
© Bisi Adewale 2020
