Wife caught her husband cheating on her…what she did will shock you
Wife caught her husband cheating on her…what she did will shock you
Ojo Oluwasegun .A
Five months ago, I caught my husband sleeping with another woman in my house. It was my only day off early in about a year so I wanted to surprise my husband with lunch but I was the one who was getting the surprise anyway it has been five months since I caught my husband cheating on me and I am still in awe….
My husband and I have been married for 9 years. My husband has been trying desperately to contact me by sending me emails/texts/calls. I told him plainly it is OVER between us but I just can’t help but think why he did this to me. Would it be wrong to ask him WHY he cheated on me? I feel like I need to know to get closure on this. Yet I am still so sad, I honestly thought I provided for him every way possible whether it was emotionally, physically, financially….
Wife caught her husband cheating on her…what she did will shock you
To make matters worse I know the married woman he was cheating on me with and I know her husband as well. I told her husband about the cheating and he broke down in front of me he kicked out his wife and filed for divorce. The weird thing about this is that I’m staring to like the guy; he has been a great shoulder to cry on and talk to. Would it be wrong to love him (and if possible mary him)? I want to get a divorce yet I just can’t believe I wasted 9 years of my life on my husband. My husband calls me everyday begging me to come back. What should I do?
Dear readers, don’t just advise this lady but also share your opinion on this question: If you were the lady what will you do? and also if you happen to be the husband what will you do? please be sincere with your answer.
Wife caught her husband cheating on her…what she did will shock you
… Dating the husband of a woman who cheated with your man doesn’t sound right… Of course, marrying him is unthinkable!… It is just like someone who decides to drink poison, thinking it will hurt the enemy… You just want to do it because you are hurt… Revenge is the undertone… I am wondering how long that can sustain you in the relationship… Be wise!…
I will definitely not sweep the matter under the carpet cos it is a situation i would never have imagined my wife to be in.
However, if it does happen i reserve the scriptural right to discard or divorce her on the ground of sexual immorality. The condition for not divorcing her would be a strong proof that such will not repeat, and this is often difficult to guarantee. This is because it happened on my matrimonial bed. It means that the whole thing was calculated,planned and executed. It did not happen in the office.
Honestly, i will ask her to leave my home for an unspecified number of months till my pain healed. What i do next will depend on her overall attitude.
If you still love your husband and you don’t want to waste your 9yrs in marriage, why can’t you forgive him and move on, instead of dating the other man.
You’re not the first and you will never be the last that this kind of thing is happening to. Issue like this has happened to a woman,although she was very sad but after her husband asked her for forgiveness with some elderly people,she warned her husband not to do that again because if he do, there is no forgiveness for it and her husband promised her. Since then they have been living happily.She put everything behind her and move on because she love her husband with all her heart and she don’t want to live him for another woman.They fought the battle together and they won.
You can do that also and live happily together if you still love him with all your heart.Don’t commit adultery, is not a solution, is a sin against God.
Stay blessed.
if you hv not done any wrong before
pls go ahead to divorce him….
divorce is granted to those with hardness
of hearth in similar situations like urs…
forgiveness paves way for harmonous relationships…
as he called u, answer him, allow him to
express his regrets, reconsile and move on with ur marriage…..
Thats my opinion and l stand l could take.
I say try to work things out with your husband. Yes divorce is granted for those who experience hardship. But God wouldn’t want us to make that the first decision. He wants to see can u get over it and move forward. How strong can you be? Are y’all both willing to move forward together and look past what he has done? Maybe a going to the pastor or even a christian marriage counselor would help as well. Seek ways to work it out and if everything you tried didn’t work then divorce might be the next thought. But make it your last option
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