15 Ways To Become An Exceptional Pastor’s Wife
-By Bisi Adewale –
To be an exception pastor’s wife there are some qualities that ought to be seeing in you such as mention below:
Appreciate God for this by getting fully involved in your husband’s life and ministry. If you believe in him and his ministry, you will do the following:
- You will accept him totally and his brand of ministry without complaining as an exceptional pastors wife you want to become.
- You will follow him wherever God is sending him.
- You will continue to pray for him and protect him.
- You will rejoice no matter the state or stage of the ministry because tomorrow shall be well.
- You will bear with him when things are not the way you want and your expectations are not being met.
- You will continue to provide good and godly suggestions that will help him to move forward.
- You will be totally involved; you won’t see it as his ministry but “our ministry”.
- You will put your resources into the ministry.
- You will not complain or condemn him when he fails. Rather, you will look for the way out.
- You will celebrate his success, no matter how “little” you may think the success is.
- You will be rugged in the presence of opposition and attacks.
- You will have dogged determination to move forward no matter what.
- You will help him keep his focus on God and his calling without doing; saying or giving suggestions that will distract or deter him.
- You will never suggest that he quits in time of failure. You will not suggest the death of the ministry like the wife of Job said to her own husband. Remember, that is the only thing that woman is remembered for.
- You will make your children believe in their father and support him.Check yourself, do you believe in the call of your husband? if your answer is NO, let me ask you why? Maybe because there is nothing to show that God called him. What then do you think is the problem? It may be you, yes, may be your failure to believe in him is working against him.
