CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3
-Bisi Adewale
CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3
CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3-I wrote this article for men who will like to improve and be a better husband. Let’s go and check those crazy things and deal with them together.
14.Abandoning wives and children for “greener pastures”. A whole lots of men lives thousands of miles away from their family to make money. A lady said, she had not seen her husband who live in U.S.A in fifteen years, another said her husband left her for U.K two weeks after their wedding and he had not return since and he stopped calling three years ago. Have you hear about ‘Abuja husband and wife’ where people who had spouses in other states but they live in Abuja, begin to share the same house and rooms like husband and wife, this is the result of cooking for greener pastures.CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3
I quite understand that some people who are in the military paramilitary and police force had to live away from their spouses due to constant transfer with the exception of these people, if you abandon your family because of money, you’ve not done because no pastures is green if your family is not in it.
15.Paying for sex when you have it at home. Sleeping with ladies in the office or elsewhere and paying them for sex when you have the same sex at home, fully loaded in your wife is crazy. Women are not different, it is the same 8seconds enjoyment, keep to your wife, she is the only one having “NAFDAC number” all other ladies are having “ota pia pia” (poison). Don’t waste your money on what you have at home. CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3
16.Talking about ex-girlfriend to their wives. A woman said, her husband is fond of referring to his old girlfriend comparing her to him, regrets that he did not marry her, he even seldom mention her name when making love to her despite the fact that it was the lady that jilted her to go and marry another man and they have not seeing in 13 years.
17.Shouting during discussion. Most men do this and it is crazy, they are fond of turning little argument to a shouting match to intimidate their wives, it is another crazy things men do in marriage.CRAZY THINGS MEN DO IN MARRIAGE -3
18.Failure to flush the toilet. Yes, you hear me right in many homes; it is not the duty of man to flush the toilet when he use it at least he is married, it is a crazy thing a whole lots of women claimed their husbands are doing.
19.Wanting sex everyday. As a family and marriage expert, I quite understand that, the sexual urge of men is stronger than that of a women. An average man want sex at least once in five days while a woman may not even want it in weeks. That apart, some husbands are so crazy about sex that they want it everyday, it is an addiction and it is crazy thing to do.
20.Keeping malice with the wife. Men find it so easy to keep malice in marriage than women. I met a woman who said her husband kept malice with her for eleven months, despite the fact that they sleep on the same bed, what do you call that.
21.Accusing their wives to be witches. This is another trend in town now, a whole lots of husbands are becoming witch catchers, they claim their wives are witches, their mother in-law, mother witches and their fathers-in-law wizard. This had destabilizes many homes and scatter many families.
22.Reporting their wives around. Many baby husband do this, they are reporters, they go all around to report their wives to anybody that care to listen, it is a bad habit which had tied down destinies of many marriages.
23.Beating the wife. In this part of the world, wife battering is been reported daily, a whole lots of men are going crazier, beating the woman they once claimed to love.
24.Bragging I am the head of this family. Nobody is contending the headship with you, if you are found of bragging about headship; it is a pointer that you are losing grip of your home.
25.Sleeping with prostitute despite HIV awareness. A prostitute said most men that patronise them are married men and they prefer “flesh to flesh”, i.e sex without using condom. She said they charge higher money for flesh to flesh service and those men are willing to pay; is that not crazy? Why patronising prostitute when your wife is available.
26.Abandoning their wives and children for other woman. Some men are now involved in this crazy game, they abandon their homes for the home of women who are not even necessarily more beautiful than their wives, it is a dirty thing to do.
27.Sleeping with their wives’ friends. Some women said they caught their husband sleeping with their best friends. One said, she is now wary of making friends because her husband has a way of winning the heart of any one she bring home and sleep with them. One said her husband slept with chief bride’s maid for nine years. He even continue the show of shame when the lady got married, what a crazy thing to do.
28.Bringing girlfriend home. Some men are so bold and rotten to the extent of bringing ladies to come and sleep with them on their matrimonial bed. A lady from FESTAC in Lagos said her husband do bring two or three ladies home for a sexual romp in her bedroom with her children in the house, making so much till day break, while she sleep in the children room.
Attention men, all your crazy actions has a pay back period, there is pay day for every ventures, don’t ever think you can go Scot free, no life has a very ship reward system, no real man will do crazy things listed above, they are only done by crazy guys, hope you are not one of them.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secrets of an Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale
