13 Women You Must Never Sleep With – And the Deadly Consequences
By bisi Adewale
Sexual purity is not just a religious principle—it is a path to honour, destiny preservation, peace of mind, and divine favour. Many great men have fallen, not in battle or business, but in the bedroom. The wrong sexual relationship can ruin everything you have worked for in life. Below are 13 categories of women you must never sleep with, along with the painful consequences that come with each one.
1. Another Man’s Wife
Sleeping with a married woman is adultery, and the Bible is clear on the consequences of this grave sin. It’s not just a betrayal of another man’s trust, but a direct rebellion against God. Adultery is like playing with fire—you cannot escape without getting burned.
Consequences:
You break a sacred covenant between husband and wife.
You may cause the breakdown of a family and scar innocent children.
The husband may seek revenge violently.
You expose yourself to public disgrace, shame, and spiritual judgment.
God Himself becomes your adversary.
Proverbs 6:32 says, “Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding: he who does it destroys his own soul.” It is never worth it.
2. A Woman Who Comes to You for Help
This woman comes into your life in a vulnerable state—maybe she needs financial support, counsel, healing, accommodation, or guidance. She looks up to you for help and covering. To sleep with her is to take advantage of her weakness.
Consequences:
You damage her emotionally and psychologically.
You violate trust and betray her sense of safety.
God will hold you accountable for exploiting a vulnerable soul.
You may scar her spiritually and emotionally for years.
It can become a scandal, especially if she later speaks out or gets pregnant.
Sleeping with someone who comes for help is not just sin—it’s abuse and manipulation in disguise.
3. A Woman Whose Medical History You Don’t Know
In an age where casual sex is normalized, people forget that the body keeps records. Engaging sexually with a woman whose health status you don’t know is like playing Russian roulette with your life.
Consequences:
You expose yourself to sexually transmitted infections (HIV, syphilis, herpes, gonorrhea, hepatitis, etc.).
Some infections may not show up immediately but could damage your reproductive system.
If you get her pregnant, you may be tied to someone you barely know for the rest of your life.
You may become a regular hospital visitor for the rest of your days.
No pleasure is worth a lifetime of medication, shame, and medical complications.
4. A Random Woman You Met Online
The internet is filled with traps. Meeting a woman on social media or dating apps and quickly jumping into a sexual relationship is extremely risky. You don’t know her history, values, motives, or background.
Consequences:
She may be a scammer, thief, or blackmailer.
She may secretly record your act and use it to destroy your reputation or extort money.
She may deliberately infect you with a disease out of vengeance or recklessness.
You could lose your phone, money, or even your life in the process.
Some men have entered hotel rooms and never returned.
The anonymity of the internet does not excuse irresponsibility. You must flee from anything that puts your destiny at risk.
5. A Woman Who Offers Sex for Favour or Money
This woman doesn’t love you—she wants something from you. It could be money, a contract, a job, a visa, or an opportunity. When you accept sexual offers in exchange for favours, you degrade yourself and invite evil into your life.
Consequences:
You empower manipulation and corruption.
You reduce your destiny to a transaction.
You develop a habit of compromise that weakens your character.
You displease God and expose yourself to spiritual attack.
You may lose your marriage, credibility, or even your job if the truth comes out.
True favour should never be exchanged for sexual pleasure. Protect your integrity.
6. A Lady Who Is Not Your Wife
You may be in love with her. She may be your fiancée. She may be beautiful, respectful, or even spiritual. But if she is not your wife, sex with her is still fornication.
Consequences:
You open the door to guilt and shame.
You weaken the spiritual foundation of your future marriage.
You may end up as spiritual strangers after marriage, bonded only by past sin.
If a pregnancy occurs, you could be forced into early marriage or deal with abortion issues.
You may lose your testimony and spiritual authority.
The Bible says to “flee fornication.” Not explain it. Not manage it. Run.
7. A Manipulative Woman
This woman knows how to seduce with words, dress, and behavior. She thrives on control. She uses sex to trap, dominate, and enslave men emotionally and spiritually. Like Delilah, she pretends to love you but is after your secrets and strength.
Consequences:
You lose your self-control and begin to live under her influence.
She may manipulate you into funding her lifestyle.
You may lose valuable relationships and opportunities because of her control.
She may ruin your marriage, business, and peace of mind.
Like Samson, you could end up blind and bound, physically or spiritually.
When you sense manipulation, distance is your deliverance.
8. Your Ex Who Wants ‘One Last Night’
Sleeping with your ex can feel nostalgic, but it is usually a trap. There’s a reason that relationship ended. Opening that door again will only bring confusion and spiritual backwardness.
Consequences:
You reignite emotional soul ties that are hard to break.
You delay your healing and future.
You may get her pregnant, starting a new chapter of chaos.
You dishonour your current relationship or calling.
When God delivers you from something, don’t go back. Close the door permanently.
9. A Jezebel-like Woman
This woman may be spiritual on the surface, but she uses her influence for control, seduction, and rebellion. She’s not just dangerous physically—she’s dangerous spiritually. She wants power, not partnership.
Consequences:
She can destroy your walk with God and quench your spiritual fire.
You become her puppet rather than God’s servant.
She can cause division in your church, family, or organisation.
She may turn you against those who genuinely love you.
A Jezebel doesn’t come with horns. She comes with beauty, boldness, and a deadly spirit. Run.
10. Someone’s Daughter Committed to Your Care
It could be a niece, a church member, an adopted child, a domestic staff, or a teenager under your roof. Sleeping with someone entrusted to your protection is a grievous betrayal and abuse of authority.
Consequences:
You cause deep emotional and psychological damage to her.
You become a predator and destroy her trust in men.
You risk criminal charges and public disgrace.
You offend God deeply by defiling someone He placed under your care.
This is not just sin—it is wickedness. You must protect, not pollute.
11. A Woman You Lead Spiritually
Pastors, counselors, and leaders are called to guide, not exploit. Crossing sexual lines with a woman you disciple or mentor is spiritual abuse. She trusts you with her soul—don’t betray that trust.
Consequences:
You lose your moral and spiritual authority.
You scandalize your ministry.
You may destroy her faith and push her away from God.
You risk public disgrace, marital crisis, and the fall of your ministry.
No sermon can erase sexual scandal. Protect your altar.
12. A Strange Woman (Prostitute or Immoral Woman)
The Bible consistently warns men against the strange woman—one who lives to seduce, entice, and destroy. Her agenda is not love, but lust and bondage.
Consequences:
You exchange purpose for pleasure.
You risk diseases, demonic attachments, and soul ties.
You could be financially drained and emotionally shattered.
You jeopardize your family, your faith, and your future.
Proverbs 7 says her house is the road to hell. It’s not just a physical risk—it’s eternal danger.
13. A Woman You Meet During Travel or Business Trips
In hotels, conferences, or foreign cities, temptation increases because people assume “no one is watching.” Many men lose their discipline on the road.
Consequences:
You may fall into blackmail, robbery, or public scandal.
You damage your reputation and endanger your marriage.
You destroy the favour God placed upon your career.
You build a secret life that will one day be exposed.
The fear of God must travel with you wherever you go.
Sexual sin is not a mistake—it’s a decision. It may seem secret, but it always brings public consequences. It may bring temporary pleasure, but it comes with lasting pain. Your destiny is too valuable to be traded for a few minutes of passion.
Be intentional. Be disciplined. Be holy.
