12 THINGS YOU MUST INVEST IN IF YOU WANT A SUPER MARRIAGE. (Claim your gift after no 12)
By Bisi Adewale
(Twitter and IG@bisiadewale)
Successful marriages are reserved for those willing to invest, what you put into your marriage will definitely show later in life, if you invest nothing, you get nothing.
Many trusts God for everything without getting ready to do anything, they feel they are been spiritual, and maybe they’ve not seen this scripture
“I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase.”
??1 Corinthians? ?3:6? ?KJV??
Paul has to Plant, Apollos has to water before God will bring the increase that you desire in your marriage.
What are the things you must plant in your marriage to get the result you ever desire?
1: PRAYER: Prayer is one important investment you must put into your marriage, Prayer make your Journey easier and make your life smoother as it brings God into your situation. create time to pray together as a couple, as an individual in that Marriage, and as a Family.
2: TIME: Spending time at home can never be too much it rather be too little, invest time into your marriage, be at home, you can’t be a great spouse when you are always on the road, it takes time to make love glow, it takes time to make Marriage great, spend time together to jell, to intimate, to build a great marriage.
3: EFFORT: Your marriage can never be great when you put it in ‘auto drive’, make effort to make it great, make effort to make it better, and pay the price. Don’t give up on your marriage, don’t allow it to sail by the wind, take control.
4: FORGIVENESS: You are married to an imperfect person, you will offend each other, you will likely hurt each other as you journey together in life. One great thing that will sustain you, in the long run, is forgiveness. You will be able to weather the storm together if you don’t allow the offense to stay and live in your heart, learn to forgive.
5: MEDALS: Your gory, your medals, celebrity status, importance, family background, your position in the office, society, or ministry will have to be invested if you want a great marriage. You cant be bragging about who you are and your position and not become proud and cocky, you cant become cocky and be a great spouse.
6: GOOD THINKING: Thinking right they say is living right, until you learn to think right you can’t have a great marriage. Think right about your spouse, believe you married the best, don’t allow your mind to stray to other people, and assure yourself your spouse is the best
7: GOOD WORDS: invest right word, invest good word, speak right, speak well. Good words breed good thinking, good actions, and good reactions, you see the chain of goodness becomes long when you are speaking right
8: RELATIONSHIPS: There are Relationships you have to let go if you want your marriage to be great. Your Siblings, parents, and relatives will no longer be number one in your life, your spouse becomes the principal figure in all you do, and you have to be totally bias in your spouse’s favor. Friends will know less of you, while your spouse takes the center stage, that is what marriage is all about.
9: MONEY: Spend your money on your marriage. Let your family enjoy your income. Your spouse and Children must never say you are stingy.
10: ROMANCE: Spend time to be romantic, play with your spouse, talk, touch, hug, peck, cuddle, kiss, and have sex generously.
11: LOVE MAKING: Sex in your marriage must never be boring or shallow, it must be tantalizing and terrific, be creative about sex, it is a gift of God to married people to take time to enjoy it
12: DEEP KNOWLEDGE: Invest in Knowledge, don’t spare yourself, grow, learn, be a better edition of yourself, and be an upgrade version of yourself for you, your Marriage, and your spouse.
12 Things books will do for you and your Marriage:
— Entertains you
— Informs you
— Makes you a better spouse
— Makes you sexier
— Help you understand the opposite sex
— Makes you more positive
— Gives you a new perspective
— Connects you to your spouse
— Helps you grow a better attitude
— Affects your Character positively
— Gives you a new secret for Marriage
— Improves your relational skills
You will miss all these if you are not reading Marriage Books, so get reading, get better, be a better spouse, and make your marriage better.
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