11 THINGS THAT ENDANGER TRUE LOVE AMONG COUPLES IN MARRIAGE

11 THINGS THAT ENDANGER TRUE LOVE AMONG COUPLES IN MARRIAGE

In marriage, there is what is known as the evil cycle and it comes into existence when there is no mutual respect.

The husband criticizes the wife due to one thing or the other, the wife responds disrespectfully. The husband in return calls her all sorts of names, the wife responds with condemnation and hatred, the husband in retaliation responds with curses and vulgar words, while the wife responds bitterly with public embarrassment and the cycle continues.

All these is traceable to these mentioned below

1. When you abandon the love of God and you replace or divert God’s love to something or someone.
2. When you no longer learn and speak the love language of your spouse.
3. When you are distracted in marriage with the opposite sex or your ex and you keep mentioning the name at will in your home even when making love with your spouse.
4. When you place importance to your extended family, friends, job, etc above your spouse and children
5. When you are addicted to something like a phone, the internet, etc or someone that is not your spouse thereby spending more time with the person or on that thing than your spouse and family.
6. When you shut down communication in your marriage or when it becomes a monotony thing. Lack of communication in marriage will lead to frustration between the two lovers.
7. When you suddenly become secretive with your life, movement, salary, savings, progress, use of phone and other intimate activities that used to bond you with your spouse
8. When you bottle-up love in your heart and you fail to express it in actions.
9. When you stop celebrating your spouse’s special moments like birthday, anniversary, promotion etc.
10. When you become insensitive to the needs, feelings, concerns and plight of your spouse. You suddenly become nonchalant to your God-given responsibility of going an extra mile or making sacrifices for your spouse and your home. You become not interested anymore. Love becomes one-sided without the other party reciprocating it.
11. When the atmosphere at home becomes tensed and full of unhealthy emotions, irritation, hatred, anger, unforgiving attitude, retaliation and all manners of third party biased interference

There is no way all of the above will be present in marriage and love will not suffer natural death. Check the state of your love today and begin to fuel it by sparking and spicing up loving and bonding activities

©Yomi Adewale 2019