10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
As a man I’ve observed, through my personal interactions with women, that there are basic things that majority of women do that majorly hinder winning over a man’s heart. Understanding these things can help women not sabotage their own relationships.
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
1. Using s*x as a weapon
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
I’m not specifically referring to s*x itself, but rather using your body to get all the attention.
Ladies, keep in mind that your image is like a magnet. You attract the type of person that you are presenting yourself as. If you are overly drawing attention to your body, you’ll attract superficial, shallow men instead of intelligent, educated and sensible ones.
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
A smart woman uses her mind, not her body, because she knows her beauty is actually in her personality, rather than her appearance alone. Physical attraction can bring temporary satisfaction; but personality and character are what actually form a rewarding relationship. Those should be your focus.
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
2. Being unambitious
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
Smart, educated men will not be interested in you if you’re way below them intellectually. Raise your standards!
Get a higher education, work toward an ambitious career, read inspirational books to keep your mind active, attend museums and art exhibitions, learn about other cultures and travel when possible, etc. If your standards are high, you’ll attract men with similar standards who are genuinely interested in you.
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
3. Not taking care of your body
10Mistakes Women Make When Trying To Win A Man part1
You don’t have to have perfect curves; but do your best to stay in shape and keep looking good. It helps with so many things — from getting a job to getting a boyfriend!
God made your body, and you should take care of it. A woman not taking care of her body comes across as one who doesn’t care about herself enough to respect her own body. The message it sends to men is, “If I do not respect and like myself, why should you?”
4. Being too shy
You need to overcome the fear of initiating a conversation with someone who interests you, as well as allowing that person to approach you. Shyness denotes insecurity, and can make you seem immature. There is absolutely nothing wrong with making the first move. If you don’t approach him, chances are someone else will, and you’ll miss out on a great opportunity.
5. Despising the Golden Rule
The rule “Treat others as you wish to be treated” is very effective in dating. Do not expect him to treat you like a queen if you don’t treat him like a king. If he shows interest first and you don’t return it, beware: He could give up on you. Reciprocity is everything.
http://www.gistsnow.com/2016/02/10-mistakes-women-make-when-trying-to-win-over-a-man.html
