YOUR MARRIAGE IS A CARBON COPY OF WHO YOU ARE
Bisi Adewale
Your marriage cannot rise above you. Who you are will be the kind of husband or wife you will be and likewise the father and the mother you will grow to become. So working on yourself is very important if you want to transform your self
Transforming yourself involves the following:
1. Your Relationship with God: Renew your relationship with God and build a close affinity with the Holy Spirit through daily prayers, studying the Bible and attending Church services to worship.
2. Your Thinking: Learn to think right. Take charge of your mind and don’t allow your mind to drive you. Consciously build a positive thinking system.
3. Your Talking: Learn to talk rightly. Who you are inside will be revealed mostly through what you say to people.
4. Your Habits: Change your habits, work on them. Your habits will become your character and your character will become your reputation and people will relate to you according to your reputation.
5. Your Character: Work on your character, get rid of anger, pride, malice, bitterness, laziness, etc.
6. Your Attitude: Your attitude to your spouse, in-laws, money, sex, work, the opposite sex, things of God, food, etc., will determine your placement in your marriage.
7. Your Association: Who do you relate with? Who are your friends? Who are in your team? These will determine your habits, attitude and character.
8. Your Exposure: Your level of exposure to training, the Word of God and the people of God will also affect your personality.
9. Your Knowledge: What you know, your level of understanding and what you do with it will be the total sum of who you are.
10. Your Beliefs: What you believe in and what you do with your beliefs are also things that will affect you and determine how people will relate with you.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
