By Bisi Adewale
Understanding Love Before Wedding
Understanding love before wedding is a major determinant to know whether you qualify to be in relationship that will bring about marriage with that person. Love is something you must check before you go into that marriage. Ask yourself the following questions:
ABOUT YOU
- Do I love this person?
- Do I really love him/her?
- Is my love genuine or do I just love him/her for his or her money, beauty, position, etc?
- Is he or she the one I love the most on earth or is he or she another person in the corner of my heart?
- Do I love him or her enough to commit my future into his/her hands?
- Do I love him or her enough to serve him or her?
- Will I still love him or her if he or she is not as rich or beautiful as he or she presently is?
- Do I love him/her enough to make a lifelong commitment?
ABOUT HIM OR HER
Ask yourself the following questions about your intending partner.
- Does he or she truly love me?
- Do I really trust him or her?
- Do I know him or her enough to be able to say he or she is genuinely in love with me.
- Is his or her love deep enough for a lifelong relationship?
- Is he or she open to me?
- Is he or she in love with me or my gift, beauty, money, position, family background, wealth, etc.
- Has he/she truly accepted me or does he or she want me to change everything about myself?
- Does he or she celebrate me?
- Can I be myself with him or her?
- Ladies ask: Can I influence this man?
- Ladies ask: Does he listen to me?
- Ladies ask: Is he in love with me or my body (sex)?
- Ladies ask: Is he faithful to me?
- Ladies ask: Does he love me enough to be my head and leader?
- Guys ask: Does she love me enough to follow me?
- Does she love me enough to be faithful to me?
- Guys ask: Is she in love with me or my money?
- Guys ask: Can I control her?
- Guys ask: Does she love me enough for a lifelong commitment?
- Guys ask: Does she love me enough to respect me?
Don’t ever go into a marriage with anybody you don’t love with all your heart, you will live a miserable life. Love is not a sexual feeling or infatuation. Don’t accept anything less than the genuine heartfelt, God-like kind of love. Don’t deceive yourself. Be sincere. Your life depends on it. Be certain that the person is in love with you. There are about 32 ways to test if your beloved loves you. Get copies of my books titled: 32 WAYS TO KNOW TRUE LOVE, HOW TO FALL IN LOVE WITHOUT FALLING INTO TROUBLE for more on this.
