THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2

September 11, 2016

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THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2

What you say to your wife often will determine the state and the destiny of your marriage. As man you must learn to speak wholesome and edifying words to your wife. No matter what order men speaks about her, what you speak or say to her will over rule what others says. Listed here are THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2 THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2

1“You talk as if you don’t think at all”. Be more humane in the way you talk to your wife. This kind of statement implies that you too do not think at all before you talk.

“You lack home training”. If you say this, you are not only abusing your wife but her parents. Then your parents did not train you too. Otherwise you won’t abuse those as old as them. THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2
“I curse the day I married you”. Your wife is not the issue; your marriage is what it is because you worked it out like that. You should stop cursing days unnecessarily. Work on your character and turn your home around.
“You Behave like a log of wood during sex”. Instead of condemning her performance in bed, why don’t you tell her what you want her to do during sexual activities?
“You are not like m mother. My mother is by far better than you are”. Then why didn’t you marry your mother in the first instance? Stop comparing your wife with your mother. They are totally different.
“I am sorry, I love you”. These two words are wonderful if they are not joined. But if joined, they mean something else. So never join them, don’t be sorry for loving your wife.
“No sex, no money”. Providing for your home is an obligation, totally unattached to whether your wife allows you to make love to her or not. It is your duty to give her money. It is not trade by barter and she is not giving you sex in exchange for money. Provide for your family.
“I don’t want any of my children to take after you”. They will surely take after her. She gave birth to them, carried them for nine months and breast fed them for a whole year or more. If you do not appreciate her, her children would do. She is their role model.
“Woman! You want to burn this house, why are you so careless in the kitchen?” That the food mistakenly got burnt does not mean she wanted to burn the house. If you had supported her in the kitchen it wouldn’t have been like that instead you were just watching T.V and reading Newspapers as she cooks, cleans the house and takes care of the children. If you do not want to kill her support her
“You are the dirtiest woman I have ever seen”. The fact that the kids turn the whole sitting room upside down and she has not taken care of the place does not mean she is the dirtiest woman. Be kind to her; help her put the home in order. You don’t need to say uncomplimentary things to her before she understands what you want. You only bark at her when something is amiss. This is unfair.
“You are the source of my problem”. In fact, talking like this implies you are the source of your problem and hers. Stop castigating your wife. Deal with yourself and solve your problems. THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2
“That is exactly what you did about two years ago”. Never go back to old issues. Real men don’t do it. Forgive and forget. Referring to bygones only shows how immature you are. Be wise. THINGS YOU MUST NEVER SAY TO YOUR WIFE – Part 2
“Rose, our house girl is by far better than you”. No woman will hear this and be happy. She might suspect you are having an affair with the girl. Never compare your wife to your house girl, lest she compares you to your driver and gardener.
“Your Mother is a Witch”. No matter what happens, never say something like this to your in-law. It is very strong.
“This is not the woman I married, you were beautiful before, now you are shapeless and look like Amoeba”. She cannot remain the same woman you met in the high school years ago. Look at yourself in the mirror and see you have changed too. You are not the man she married too. Accept you wife. Stop blaming her. If she must slim down talk to her with love and work it out together.
“Even if you die I will not mourn you”. Always talk positively. Edify your wife. Make her happy. If there is any misunderstanding, settle it. Be a man. Be wise, use your mouth wisely.