OW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE AN EXTREMELY HAPPY WOMAN
HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE AN EXTREMELY HAPPY WOMAN
Merely looking at the face of some wives reveals how sad and frustrated they are. Lots of wives are passing through life as if they are in hell. You can’t tell us that you are a real man until your wife is happy being your wife; not regretting that she said “Yes I do” to you. The question is, if your wife has another opportunity to marry again, and you are one of the available bachelors seeking her hands in marriage; will she ever marry you?
I will be opening your eyes to some little things you can do to become husband of a happy woman.
- MAKE HER NUMBER ONE ON YOUR TO DO LIST.
Let her be relevant to you, create time for her, never neglect and abandon her. Give her your attention. You are the only one she has.
- TALK TO HER.
Most men don’t talk to their wives, this is wrong. Women are relationship being. They love to communicate. Your wife want to know your heart, wants to know how you are feeling. So, it is important you talk to your wife.
- HONOUR HER
Most husbands are fond of embarrassing their wives in the presence of their children and visitors. This is totally wrong. You must learn to honour your wife, don’t ever criticize or condemn her in the presence of your children, friends and family. It is wrong. The Bible says “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge GIVING HONOUR unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel and being heirs together of the grace of life that your prayers be not hindered”. (1 Peter 3:7)
- LISTEN TO HER.
One of the greatest need of your wife is to be listened to, she wants to tell you her joy, fear, plans, feelings, reservations, etc. if you are an irresistible husband; your ears must be open to her.
- PRAY WITH AND FOR HER.
To make her happy, form the habit of praying for her and with her, this normally gladdens the heart of a woman. When they know their husbands is talking to God about them.
- PROVIDE FOR HER AND HER CHILDREN.
Women do have a sense of security when the men in their lives are responsible, provide for their needs and make them live comfortable lives. Provide to the best of your ability and the blessing of the Lord will envelop you as you make your wife happy.
- CELEBRATE HER.
Don’t just honour your wife, go ahead celebrate her before friends, family, children and colleagues, celebrate her beauty and her character, celebrate her dressing, cooking and her wisdom.
- BE FAITHFUL.
No woman will be happy living with an immoral husband. Infidelity kills joy in women. It hurts them so deeply. Please, be faithful to her. Don’t look for sex elsewhere, satisfy your sexual desire at home, divert your sexual fantasy toward her, never run after any other lady out there, there is nothing they have that is not in the body of your wife.
- BE COMMITTED.
Be committed to your wife and your marriage vow, let her love overwhelm you, be captivated by her beauty. Accept her totally and be ready to defend and protect her. Stand by her and make her your “number one personality” on earth.
- TREAT HER AS YOU WOULD TREAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
If you are still begging her to marry you, what are the things you will be doing for her to convince her that you are the best among her suitors? I think you should list them out. Again, what are the things you were doing for her during your courtship days that you’ve stopped doing? Those are the things that made her extremely happy and convinced her that you are the right man. If you want the best of her now, return to those things, do them regularly; you will be shocked how happy your wife will be.
- TREAT HER AS YOU WOULD TREAT A MISTRESS.
Play with her, flirt with her, tease her, hug her, cuddle her, massage her body for her, be romantic, be playful, be a total lover boy, enjoy sex with her, stop seeing her just as a wife only, start to see her as your mistress, go ahead and have affairs with her, it is a good affair.
- BE HER FRIEND.
Confide in her, keep her company, talk together, play together, travel together, relax with her, crack jokes, be humorous, just be a friend not just a husband.
- TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN.
If you want to be treated like a king, then treat her like a queen, hail her, praise her, appreciate her, celebrate her “Excellency”. Treat her with full honour and respect.
- LIVE A GODLY LIFE.
Every woman desire to have a godly husband. Give your life to Christ and serve Him for the rest of your life, that is the best thing you can do for yourself and your family. Stop smoking and drinking, do away with ungodly friends, run away from strange women, rather stick to your own wife.
HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE AN EXTREMELY HAPPY WOMAN
