HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE BETTER
HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE BETTER
You can decide to make your marriage better and enjoy the best of time at home,it’s your Choice.
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
??Genesis? ?2:18?
** God created marriage to bring us Help
** God created marriage to make us joyful
** It is in your hands to make your marriage the best
HOW TO MAKE OUR HOME BETTER
1) BUILD STRONG FOUNDATION: Your foundation will determine if your marriage will be better
“If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?”
??Psalms? ?11:3?
2) CHANGE YOUR MINDSET
“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”
??Proverbs? ?4:23? ?
<> Your heart is the engine room of your marriage.
<> Deal With ANTS (AUTOMATIC NEGATIVE THOUGHTS)
I mis married
My spouse is wicked
Am no more beautiful
My wife is no more beautiful
So and so husband is better than mine
<> THINK RIGHTLY
I married the right person
My Spouse is the most beautiful or handsome personalty
I won’t divorce no matter what
My spouse loves me
Am getting the best from this marriage
Nobody is better than my spouse
3) TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR CHARACTER
“But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day. The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble.”
??Proverbs? ?4:18-19?
<> Deal with Anger
4) BEHAVE LIKE MATURELY:
1 Corinthians 13:11 KJV
[11] When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
%% Childish things people do in marriage
<> Reporting their spouses
<> Keeping Malice
<> Nagging
<> fighting because very little things
<> Loving third party more than spouse
<> Refusing to pick calls
<> Rejecting food
<> Shutting the door of bedroom in anger
5) SECURE THE MERCY OF GOD FOR YOUR FAMILY IN PRAYER:
“Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.”
??Psalms? ?127:1?
