IMMATURE THINGS WOMEN DO IN MARRIAGE
By Bisi Adewale
Women do many immature things in their homes that turn their homes into a battlefield. Every woman must take time to check these out and deal with themselves, grow and become a better wife. Immature things women do in marriage are:
– Hating their husband’s families.
– Fighting their mothers-in-law.
– Dressing badly once they are married and saying, “who dey look me?” (Who is looking at me?).They have forgotten that men are moved by what they see.
– Declaring war on their husbands.
– Competing with their husbands.
– Leaving the house dirty and unkempt.
– Spiritually dead without any prayer life and time to read the Bible.
– Refusing to cook at home because they are angry with their husbands.
– Reporting their husbands to their parents, friends, family members, children, etc.
– Singing abusive songs to harass their husbands and in-laws.
– Abusing and cursing their husbands.
– Constant outbursts of anger.
– Challenging their husbands to beat them.
– Keeping malice with their husbands.
– Keep a diary of wrong things their husbands did.
– Transfer aggression to husband and children because of personal frustration.
– Crying unnecessarily.
– Making life difficult for their husbands.
– Not being faithful to their husbands financially.
– Comparing their husbands with other men and saying, “You don’t know what your mates are doing out there”.
– Accusing their husbands of infidelity without any proof.
– Unnecessary jealousy
– Suspicious attitude.
– Not ready to lose arguments.
– Fighting dirty with their husbands.
– Making loud noises to attract neighbours during arguments.
– Not supporting their husband financially.
– Not improving in homemaking.
– Threaten their husbands with divorce and separation.
– Not being appreciative.
– Loving their fathers, mothers children more than their husbands.
– Speaking to embarrass their husbands.
– Blaming their husbands for any mistake at home.
– Not being submissive.
– Failure to respect their husbands.
– Respecting other men more than their husbands.
– Not being creative in the bedroom.
– Night crawling.
– Failure to forgive their husbands.
– Loving their jobs more than their husbands.
– Complaining about almost everything.
– Shouting during discussions.
– Refusing to talk during misunderstandings (silent treatment).
– Allowing friends and family to direct the affairs in their houses.
– Talking about their ex-boyfriends in the presence of their husbands.
– Failure to apologise.
– Laziness and dirtiness.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
