Five Star Wife Pt 2

Five Star Wife Pt 2

Bisi Adewale

Do you want a five star treatment from your husband? Do you want him to treat you like a queen? Do you want his honour and respect? Do you want him to be faithful to you only? Do you want him to treat you like a lady? Do you want peace of mind in his house; become the real woman of influence in his life? If your answer is yes; then, do just one thing; become a FIVE STAR WIFE. Yes, A FIVE STAR WIFE

1. YOUR INNER LIFE.
Your inner life determines your outer destiny. Hence, to become a great wife, you need to deal with your inner life. It involves the following:
? Your State of Mind with God. Are you truly born again? Are you living holy life? Do you have absolute faith in God? Do you trust Him? (Job 22:21-30)
? Your Self-Esteem. Is it negative or positive, do you believe in yourself? Are you bold and courageous? (Ephesians 4:23)
? Your Emotion. You need to handle fear, joy, anger, sadness (etc) positively. You must not bear malice or harbor bitterness. (Ephesians 4:31)
? Your Thinking. Is it positive or negative? Do you see cup as half filled or half empty? You need to develop yourself to become optimist. Never think negatively about your husband, in-laws and neighbours. Be positive. (Proverbs 4:23)
? Your Wisdom. Are you wise or foolish? Are you getting your ways with your husband by fighting him or by influencing him? Keep on improving yourself and get better than yesterday; don’t ever allow your husband to leave you behind as he improves intellectually. (Proverbs 14:1)
2. YOUR OUTER LIFE.
? Your outlook must be handle rightly. Your hair, body, mouth and armpit must be clean. Perfume or deodorant is not bad especially if you have body odour (SOS. 6:9). Look nice (SOS. 7:7), smell nice (SOS. 1:12), act nicely (Prov. 21:19)
? Your “mouth-look”. The way you talk to your husband will determine how he will handle you. Are you a talkative, do you murmur, abuse, curse, gossip, etc; this is wrong. (Col. 4:6, Prov. 21:23, Eph. 4:29)
? Let your dressing be balance. Not outdated, immoral, dirty, extravagant or a colour riot. Avoid wearing traditional dress often as it makes you look older than your age, avoid both negative and positive extreme dressing. Proverbs 31:22.
? Attitude to work. Be diligent, industrious and versatile. Don’t be lazy. Proverbs 22:29

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale