15 AMAZING WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND LOVE YOU
Bisi Adewale
It is not sufficient to crave your husband’s attention. You have to give him attention first of all.
Some women withhold their attention in a bid to ‘punish’ their husbands for denying them love; they think this will make the man “come to his senses”, crawling back to them, begging for their feet. This is wrong! Men are not made to live like that. You can’t win a man by fighting him. You can’t withhold attention to get attention; it does not work like that.
HEART SURGERY 1
Commit the heart of your husband into the hands of thy Lord.
HEART SURGERY 2
Pray aggressively for him,
Tell God to create a room for you in his heart.
Ask that God enables him to love you with all his heart.
SELF EXAMINATION
Commit yourself into the hand of the Lord, your habits, characters, dressing etc.
BOOST HIS EGO
Tell him” I respect you”, “you are a wise man” often. This will boost his ego and makes him feel at home with you Don’t bruise his ego, boost it. Respect is the number one thing men want wants from their wives. Don’t fail to respect your husband. (Ephesians 5:33).
VERBALISE HAPPINESS
Tell him you are happy to be married to him.
If you tell him you are happy, he will seek to make you happier
MAKE HIM YOUR HERO
Make him your champion; your hero.
Receive him totally, let him feel like a superman; exalt him above any other man.
KITCHEN THERAPY
Prepare his meal promptly; no delay, no complain. Remember that a hungry man is an angry man; and that the road to the heart of a man is through the kitchen door
LISTEN TO HIM
Listen when he talks. Men generally want their wives to be their students. If you become a good student, he becomes a good teacher.
LAY HIM ON THE ALTAR
Pray with him and for him often. Make him your prayer project. A praying wife is a winning wife.
FORGIVE HIM
Be a generous forgiver; forgive him when he offends you. This will surprise him and destroy all his ‘defences’ and will make him want to change.
PLAY WITH HIM
Sit on his laps when you are together. Don’t fail to remain his lover girl; don’t outgrow playfulness.
BOOST HIS SELF -ESTEEM
Tell him he is handsome, brilliant, and wealthy this will boost his self-esteem, makes you his friend and help him love you once again.
MAKE HIM A VOCAL LOVE
Say I love you often. he may not ask you the “do you still love me ?”Question (As you often ask him), but he still wants to know.
ENCOURAGE HIM
Encourage him when he is challenged, failed or forbid. Be his cheerleader, the chairman of his supporter’s club. Tell him it is well, yes, it is well.
© Bisi Adewale 2020
