GOD IS WORKING SOMETHING OUT FOR THE GOOD OF YOUR MARRIAGE

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GOD IS WORKING SOMETHING OUT FOR THE GOOD OF YOUR MARRIAGE

Couples have to see good in this season. They have to be sensitive to the plans of God for their union and know the secrets of the moment. Please, stop counting the losses, lost grounds and forfeited opportunities. Don’t transfer aggression to your spouse and children, God will restore you in multiple folds.

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

Let us check out the following aspects of #stayathome or #workfromhome, whatever the case may be:

We have couples who have not been maximizing the power of two in the place of prayer due to the demands of their work. Also, they are unable to share the word with their children. God has created the avenue for you now, no excuse. Take full advantage of this season to expose your children to God’s words and imbibe godly values, virtue and culture in them

The time factor has created communication gaps in some marriages. Many issues and discussions have been swept under the carpet. You have many things to catch up with now. Please utilize the season if you are at home and not part of those involved in essential activities who are busy rescuing lives at the moment. We trust God to keep them from harm.

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Fathers, whose children don’t have any memory of playing and relating with should please, gladly initiate some interesting and bonding activities like a small tournament, storytelling, teaching, modelling and training with their children. The memory will linger in them.

Wives who have thrown away their cooking skills, have become alien in their kitchens and have not been involved at home fronts because they have flaunted the nature of their jobs as the main excuse now have the opportunity to brush up their cooking skills plus other lost skills now and extend it to their children. Make the cooking time fun and husbands should be part of it. The whole family needs to take care of the home front now

Wives should be creative at this time so they don’t spend all day in the kitchen. They should plan their meals and add healthy alternatives to ease off the stress and seek for support.

May be attention, giving of listening ears and having effective communication have been your family major challenges. Maybe you have been avoiding each other and not ready to shift ground, you have to humble yourself now to create an atmosphere of peace.

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The Prince of Peace has been knocking at the door of your home for so long to come in and enthrone His kingdom, but you keep justifying your retaliating actions. You say, “He doesn’t love me” “I can’t cook for him anymore” “I can’t sit with him/her for whatever reason” etc. But you have to stay at home now and sort out your differences and make most of this time to reconcile and reunite.

Hostility, transfer of aggression, going into depression, physical abuse, violence, division etc can’t confront this season and win. You need oneness of the Spirit to stand in the gap for prayers and plan the future of your family. Remember, there will be another season after now, what preparations and ideas do you have on ground to tap the opportunities ahead.

If you have not been energizing as couples, please connect and cooperate with God to create a bright future that you can both feature, that will be good for you and make your family proud.

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If you have had records of physical abuse in marriage in the past, kindly be patient with each other at this time, tame your anger, avoid negative activities and emotional outbursts that can trigger violence. And if you are already going through the hurtful experience of physical assault, please speak out for appropriate help now. It is not good for you and it would affect your children.

Its time to strengthen your relationship, reaffirm your commitment, renew your love, improve on your submission, make your communication effective and strategize for the future.

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. Ecclesiastes 4:9

? Yomi Adewale 2020
Family Booster Ministry