Sex In Marriage: Ways To Approach Sex In Marriage Pt 2
Bisi Adewale
(1) Approach sex with an open mind knowing fully well that half minded sex is not love making. Never forget that your mind is the strongest sex organ, give all your attention to your mate’s body and the pleasure. Forget about the business deal, children’s school fees, sick child, stock market, sport news, baby wet diaper etc get your body system, your hormones in the red alert to get the best pleasure humanity can offer. Never be half minded, come fully to the bedroom, give a 101 percent performance.
(2) Approach sex with joy, knowing fully well that you are doing the right thing. By giving your body to your mate, you are obeying God; you are satisfying your mate, preventing him/her from sexual immorality creating happiness and making God happy. Since what you are doing is right, then approach sex with joy. No moodiness, laugh, crack jokes, talk to your mates, call genital by their names, don’t withdraw into your ‘shell’ and be free with your man.
(3) Approach sex as a recreation knowing fully well that God plan it that way. Sex is not just for baby making, it is for pleasure, enjoyment and recreation, it is not something you do when you feel you need another baby. Approach it with the mind of enjoying yourself and give your spouse the pleasure he/she rightly deserve.
(4) Approach sex with a sense of responsibility knowing that it is your duty to satisfy your spouse. See sex with a sense of responsibility- responsibility to give adequate foreplay, responsibility to give proper pleasuring, responsibility to participate fully. Holding your husband, rolling your body, appreciating his body, making good comment as you make love and enjoy the best of time together. Men also should know that it is their responsibility to delay ejaculation and take their wives to orgasm.
Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 40 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster Moments.
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