45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women

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45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women

45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
-By Bisi Adewale
As a married man, you are going to meet so many other women in your journey in life,Some will be colleagues in the office,schools,neighbors,friends,teachers of your Children, Mothers of other children in your Children’s school etc
Many things will bring you closer to other women but Intimacy with them should be avoided at all costs. A married man’s best friend should be his wife, and the ONLY woman with whom he should have sex, open,private,deep and intimate conversations. If you are a real man, a man of integrity; your wife should be the most important woman in your life, no exceptions. These are statements you must not make to other women:
1) “MY MARRIAGE IS IN SERIOUS TROUBLE”
Who told you she is not having problems in her marriage too? Take your case to a counsellor,don’t weep up sentiment that will consume you.

2) “MY WIFE IS NOT BEAUTIFUL”
Nobody force you to marry her, you are the reason why she is no more beautiful, if you take good care of her, she will be splendid
3) “I THINK I MIS MARRIED”
Says who? If you mis married, then you are the wrong partner.

4) “AM NOT ENJOY SEX WITH MY WIFE”
What do you want the woman you are reporting to,to do ? Is she a sexologist? This is wrong
5) “YOU ARE BETTER THAN MY WIFE”
This is an unfair judgement,and it is Childish, stop it.
6) “WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I WAS LOOKING FOR A WIFE”
She is always there, but you can’t see her then because your choice is better than her.Look inward, celebrate your wife. Stop looking for what is not lost.
7) “YOU LOOK SEXY”
This is never a compliment but immoral words from the mouth of a man that lacks discipline.
8) “YOU ALWAYS LOOK BEAUTIFUL”
The word “always” means you’ve been looking at her all this while.You are wrong,this is beyond compliment, you are building a bridge of destruction.
9) “YOUR BOYFRIEND IS LUCKY”
Keep that to yourself . Let your wife enjoy you too.
10) “THAT IS WHY I LOVE YOU”
Say this is why I like you, reserve the word ‘’love’’ for your dear wife.Like others but love her.
11) “YOUR BUTT IS GREAT”
Rotten words,it can even be seen as sexual harassment,you had better be careful
12) “YOU HAVE GREAT BODY”
Yes, your wife has a greater body, if only covetousness will allow you to see that
13) “YOU HAVE A GREAT BREAST”
Why on earth is your eyes on her breast, you’ve gone beyond your boundary.
14) “HOW I WISH I AM MARRIED TO YOU”
Too late,and too bad,You are not married to her, celebrate the gem in your house.
15) “SEX WITH YOU WILL BE GREAT”
Foolish statement,sex can only be great, holy and righteous with your wife.
16) “YOUR HUSBAND IS ENJOYING”
Thank you for that, you too go back home to enjoy your wife
17) “YOU WILL BE BETTER IN BED THAN MY WIFE”
 This is one of the most stupid thing a man can say. Great men won’t dare it, shallow men can utter it.
18) “I REALLY CELEBRATE YOU”
You don’t need to celebrate your wife instead
19) “I’M IN NEED OF A GOOD FRIEND TO TALK TO”
If the conversation is too intimate, it creates a closeness that should not exist. If you need a friend to talk to, your wife is the best person to fill that vacuum.

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20) “MY WIFE AND I HAVEN’T HAD SEX IN A LONG WHILE
A married man should never talk about his sex life with anybody, especially another woman. If you feel frustrated, talk with your wife or a counselor and try to work it out together.
21) “MY WIFE AND I DON’T GET ALONG WELL”
At some point, both of you got along, that was why you decided to get married. If your marriage is going through a rough patch, remember the good times and get closer to your wife – not to another woman.

22) “YESTERDAY ,MY WIFE AND I HAD A HUGE FIGHT” Then go back home and resolve it, Stop flaunting it around.
23) “NO ONE NEED TO KNOW THIS” You know that it is wrong that is why you don’t want people to know, so stop it.
24) “WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING ABOUT US” Who are the “us”? You are only “us” with your wife. You know you’ve given room for unnecessary rumor that is why you are asking this question.
25) “YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN”
Does your wife make you feel like a woman? This is wrong and uncalled for.
26) “I’M GLAD TO HAVE YOU AROUND ME” This type of compliment makes it clear that you are interested in another woman and that you need her. A married man should never have this type of friendship with another woman.45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
27) “WHAT I WANT TO TELL YOU I HAVE NOT TOLD MY WIFE”

Then, don’t tell her. You know that it is wrong to tell her.
28) “HOW I WISH MY WIFE CAN LEARN FROM YOU” When does she become a teacher of wives? Stop messing up yourself.
29) “I MARRIED A STUPID WIFE”
Only a stupid man will say this
30) “IF I HAVE OPPORTUNITY TO MARRY AGAIN I WILL MARRY YOU”
Sorry, that opportunity is lost, stay focus on your wife.
31) “I AM SEX STARVED”
Who told you that a woman is a sex distributor, a man with integrity will not say this
32) “YOU ARE MY ONLY CONFIDANT” How can she be your only confidant when you are married? If she is your confidant, you are very wrong .45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
33) “WHAT CAN I DO WITHOUT YOU”
You will have to do without her. Keep this compliment to your wife.
34) “I’M STRESSED OUT ;CAN WE GO OUT TOGETHER”
Hanging out with another woman alone is disrespectful to your wife and that is the first step towards infidelity.

35) “HOW DO I LOOK IN THIS CLOTHES?”
You are looking for compliment? Ask your wife when you get back home sir.

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36) “WE’RE JUST FRIENDS, SO THIS SHOULDN’T BE A PROBLEM”
If you need to give excuses about your actions; it is a sign that these actions are totally wrong. Avoid anything that you have to give excuses for.45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
37) “DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND?”
This information should not be of interest to a married man. You don’t need it, It’s not your business.
38) “DO YOU THINK THAT I’M A GOOD HUSBAND”
Ask your wife when you get back home, she is the only one that can assess you.
39) “CAN YOU GIVE ME A HUG”
No sir, get back home for free hug that will not destroy your life
40) “LOOK AT ME STRAIGHT IN THE EYE”
Eye contact is very dangerous.In fact, that is where flirting begins. Don’t ask for it.
41) “CAN I HAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER”

Except for genuine business; you don’t need the phone numbers of girls you meet casually. What will you need it for.
42) “LET’S MEET IN REAL LIFE” You met a lady on Facebook,twitter,Instagram,whatsaap and you are asking her to meet you in real life, for what? 45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women
43) “AM NOT MARRIED”

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You are telling lies, it won’t take you anywhere.
44) “AM MARRIED BUT IN A VERY BAD MARRIAGE”

Then get back home to make things happen, hanging out with ladies will make your marriage worse.
45) “WHAT KIND OF MAN DO YOU LIKE”

What is your own business about the kind of man she likes ? Face your business .
Every responsible married man will be careful about what he says when he is alone with other women.The question is, are you responsible? 45 Things Married Men Must Never Say To Other Women

Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004, Whatsaap 08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale.Twitter @bisiadewale